Now more and more people are facing the problem of cheating on their husbands, and many women will choose to fight wits and brave wits with the little ones to fight a thrilling marriage defense war. How to protect them is a science.
If you want to achieve absolute victory, you should let your team grow and never fight alone. If you can let your mother-in-law stand on your side, you will be more confident.
Because the husband has the responsibility of marriage to you and the duty of filial piety to his mother, it takes courage to let him abandon these things to stay with the third child. With the support of your mother-in-law, you can have more confidence to deal with the mistress.
Of course, this kind of "support" is not to make you act like a tiger and become a bitch, but to make you have strength and confidence, because you represent a family, not alone.
I have a female friend L, who was a beauty in the department when she was in college. She has talent and looks. Her pursuers can gather several tables of mahjong downstairs in the dormitory. Everyone thought that with more choices, she would not fall into the grave of love so early. As a result, she was the first person in our class to get married, and unexpectedly married a boy with ordinary conditions in all aspects, Xiao Zhang.
Xiao Zhang is a real rural man, who has been admitted to the city with his own efforts. L once told me that choosing Xiao Zhang is to admire his honesty and kindness, and to love and love himself from the heart. Xiao Zhang has a very capable mother in his hometown in the countryside. L has been worried about the bad relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but in fact, there are occasional small conflicts, which is harmonious.
L married Xiao Zhang and went back to his hometown in the countryside with him. The husband and wife opened a shop together to do business. L thinks it's good to be so stable and stable in her life. She has her own opinions, so she doesn't care about other people's rumors such as "flowers stuck in cow dung". The couple's life changed after two years.
L found that for a period of time, Xiao Zhang always held a mobile phone to chat with people, and the business did not care much. L observed for a period of time, and finally confirmed that Xiao Zhang had an affair. Before she could figure out what to do, her mother-in-law found her first. It turned out that my mother-in-law met her son and mistress who were dating nearby when she was shopping. She knew her son's honesty and didn't think much about it. She thought it was a common friend and went up to say hello.
Unexpectedly, his son panicked and pulled himself home. The old lady knew that this was bad. She should have preferred her son, but after several years of getting along with her, she was actually very satisfied with her daughter-in-law. The villagers in the village also envied her for having a good daughter-in-law, which made her face a lot longer. As soon as she summed up, she told her daughter-in-law about it and wanted to discuss countermeasures together. L felt confident as soon as she saw her mother-in-law supporting her so much. The two discussed and then made a clever drive.
After being inquired by their mother-in-law, they have basically mastered the whereabouts of the third child. L came out first, blocked the mistress and told her that she had known everything. Then take the warm route, and tell the little girl how hard she is and how many grievances she has suffered over the years. The third thought that the two would fight, but he didn't expect such a fight.
Yu Wen did not leave. The next day, the mother-in-law came out and stopped the third child again. She expressed her attitude sternly and let the third child know how filial her son is at ordinary times. If she did not agree, the woman would never turn right. The mother-in-law and L sing the white face and the red face, which is very effective. After weighing the difficulties in many ways, Xiao San retreated. After successfully resisting the foreign enemies, they began to criticize and educate Xiao Zhang, and finally achieved complete victory.
Remember, when dealing with the third, please take the powerful assist of mother-in-law.