It is often heard that many women complain that their men always lie to themselves, and many women who are not deeply involved in the world can easily fall into the trap of men's lies. In fact, men sometimes lie white lies, mainly to avoid conflicts with women, but some lies are not true white lies. However, no matter what kind of lies they are, it indicates that men want to live with you like this all the time. These are the most common lies men tell:
1. I have no further contact with my ex girlfriend
Many men maintain a certain amount of contact after breaking up with their former girlfriend, so their former girlfriend has become a major concern for current women and is considered a rival in love. Whenever a boyfriend shows some ambiguous signs, many women become neurotic and keep asking him "who he is" and "is he an ex girlfriend?".
However, people are emotional animals, and it is absolutely impossible to shut down the feelings of their predecessors. Presumably, women won't erase their ex boyfriends from their minds. In order not to be spied on the emotional scars inside, nor to let her know too much about his true attitude towards his ex girlfriend, men use such lies to cover up their hearts.
2. I didn't hear your call just now
Don't expect every man to answer the phone on time when you want him to. He also needs freedom and space. Maybe it's because he's really busy, or he's deliberately not answering, or he's sulking, but after the event, he doesn't want you to suspect him and make you sad and angry. Therefore, men can only use such old-fashioned and cute lies to hide.
3. I need to work overtime
In today's society, men are under great pressure, so overtime is inevitable. Because of this, "working overtime" has been used as the best excuse by many men who engage in affairs. Many times, he even colludes with friends or colleagues to deceive you, making you believe his lies even more.
So, when men often have to work overtime, you need to wake up. "You cannot believe it as true, nor can you deny it entirely. It is best to go over and investigate it under the pretext of visiting a group.". In addition to exploring the reality, it is also good to offer comfort to the husband and promote their feelings.
4. I like your cooking
The self satisfaction a woman can obtain from supporting her family is one of the great feelings she can have. If a man tells her, "I like the food you cook," a woman will feel satisfied and warm. When he tells you the opposite, there are only the following results: A. You cover the pot on his head; B. You cried. I'm quite sure there won't be a third outcome.
5. I will always love you alone
This is the most ridiculous lie. Almost all women are smart enough to understand, it's just nonsense. It is completely impossible for a person to love only one person in his lifetime. Even if you can guarantee that you only love her now, how can you guarantee that there will be accidents or changes in the unknown future? No matter who has the problem of cheating, can it be said with a high sounding voice that I only love the person I once loved in my life?
If a man says this to you, it only proves that he has a strong purpose and hopes to gain your favor through this sentence, and then possess you. So when hearing men say such things, female friends should pay attention.
6. This issue will be discussed later
In short, when a man says he wants to discuss the issue later, it means he doesn't want to talk about it at all. "But women always cannot read through the hearts of men, and even keep asking questions in order to clarify things.". It is often easy to cause resentment among men, and their attitudes become even worse. When a man says this to you, take it easy.