Post Date December, 03 2023
My husband and I have been in love for four years in college. They are all local people in Shanghai. But my mother-in-law and father-in-law live in Zhejiang. We got along well. After all, sometimes we only go to Zhejiang once a week or even a month. We got married for more than a year. We got along well.
The other day, the company had a physical examination and found that my estrogen was too low. My work needs to be reversed day and night. The doctor advised me to recuperate for a period of time. My mother-in-law recommended me an old Chinese doctor in Zhejiang. My husband and I both want to have children, so they went to see the old Chinese doctor together. The old Chinese medicine gives us pulse respectively. I have irregular menstruation and need to be conditioned. If I want to be pregnant, I need to be conditioned for at least 1 year. My husband is an occupational disease of ordinary white-collar workers - sub-health. I suggest my husband give up smoking and drinking. I quit my job and changed to a relaxed civil servant who works from nine to five. I drink medicine and recuperate every day. My husband really quit smoking and drinking. We all look forward to becoming happy parents in a year.
In order to help me recuperate my body, my mother-in-law has lived in my home since seeing Chinese medicine. In addition to helping with cleaning, she will cook different delicious food every day. At first, I felt so happy that I met a good mother-in-law. However, the living habits of the two generations are different, and the contradictions are gradually increasing. My mother-in-law often complains about why I buy so many clothes without wearing them. I complain that I am always vegetarian······
I try not to conflict with my mother-in-law, but the biggest contradiction still comes from faith. There are many people in Shanghai who believe in Christianity. My father-in-law and husband are all religious Buddhists. Every year, I will go to find eminent monks to instruct me. At fixed times, I will only be vegetarian.
One day at dinner, my mother-in-law looked at the vegetarian food and said, "Don't always eat like this. Those you believe are not effective." I forced to nod and continue to eat, but my husband suddenly said, "Don't always believe in those and eat vegetarian food, so that my family can not be established." I was stunned at that time. My husband and I are both college students, have a long relationship, and have a tacit understanding. There has never been any conflict because of faith, After my mother-in-law came, it became a mistake to believe in Buddhism. It must be that my mother-in-law complained many times. I was very angry. I choked directly with my husband and packed up some things and went to my mother's house.
Editor's analysis:
The issue of faith, even the preference for different teams, may become the breakout point of the couple's war. If other people in the family join in the war, it will make the couple have one more supporter, which is the easiest way to make simple things complicated. The best way to solve the conflict is for the couple to calm down and deal with it by themselves.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
