Post Date December, 02 2023
Human society has created various myths of "male superiority", causing men to pay incalculable costs in life. In order to maintain the dignity of a 'man', thousands of men are in the midst of self confusion, self struggle, endless exhaustion, and self destruction. Only men can recognize the oppression and alienation of social culture towards men, put down the pretense of 'superiority', and explore and change their inner world with an open attitude. Only by doing so can they be liberated from the old and destructive lifestyle, making their lives more calm, authentic, and Harmony and beauty.
From the day men remember, they begin to receive an education and gradually form a concept: this world is a man's world, men are the masters of this world, and men are superior.
In order to maintain the superior dignity of 'men', thousands of men live under various oppressions:
--In modern social civilization, young men should always be the challengers and winners of gender relations. The more girls they "get", the more their "charm" is praised by their peers. On the other hand, social ethics and morality educate them that their physiological and psychological needs and ways of chasing women are "shallow" and "deviant" behaviors. When they make a mistake of "deceiving" other women, The potential sense of guilt and self contempt becomes a condemnation of one's own inner self.
——As early as childhood, boys have learned that masculinity means not relying on anyone, and dependence is seen as cowardice and femininity. As a result, communication and relationships between men and others are restricted, and men's various needs are self denied.
——The words' have seed 'and' fearless' are rewards for boys fighting, while words such as' coward ',' coward ', and' bastard 'have become additives that encourage men to take risks, provoke trouble, and self destruct.
--The contempt for women makes men afraid of being associated with "femininity". In today's era, girls boldly name themselves as boys and increasingly break into the traditional realm of men. Men dare not name themselves as women and are ashamed to enter the traditional realm of women. Their fear of "femininity" invisibly interrupts men's room for retreat and choice, forcing them to put on a pretentious airs and distance themselves after ridiculing others.
——In order to maintain a masculine image and win in competition, men always maintain a high degree of vigilance and caution in their interactions, making it difficult to be honest and afraid of exposing their shortcomings and weaknesses, becoming closed and lonely.
——Culture forces men to have decision-making ability, rigorous thinking, and clear thinking, making it difficult for their minds to accept ambiguous and contradictory things at the same time, becoming rigid, rigid, absolute, domineering, either arrogant or inferiority complex, making it difficult to adopt a flexible and honest attitude in life.
--A woman's tears evoke sympathy, while men's tears disgust. This feminine culture prevents men from crying and shames them into happily acknowledging and expressing their emotions.
