1. There is an emotional curve for extramarital affairs, from encounters, romance, honeymoon, indifference to separation, which is basically completed in about a year. So, if you notice that your husband has an extramarital affair, you should put it on hold for a while. Don't trace his whereabouts, don't rummage through his things, don't check his phone, this is meaningless self abuse.
2. A man's need for intimacy is much like a baby, and you often feed him with love little by little when you need it.
You can't make him eat too much, it makes him picky and also makes him anorexic. Let him have one-third of hunger and thirst, but cannot let him be hungry. If he is hungry, he will choose to eat, and whoever comes will not refuse.
3. When arguing, never blindly compromise. Unconscious tolerance may make the party who wants to argue unhappy, and the party who backs down may feel unhappy. We cannot fix who is the winner and who is the loser. Feng Shui should take turns in such a fight to make a noise. Otherwise, we won't be willing to lose, and we won't be comfortable either.
4. Most intelligent men. Deep down, I hope that women may be slightly mentally disabled. In a dominant mindset, they are more able to show their tolerance and tolerance. They are always adept at dealing with women who are dizzy and confused, while women who are too sober will make them feel that any disguise is the emperor's new clothes.
5. Compared to others, we prefer women who love to complain because complaining is an open attitude and is willing to cause conflicts in marriage. Women who do not complain may have excessive identification with marriage, which may make good men "bad" and bad men become reckless.