Post Date December, 02 2023
"Hold the hand of your son and grow old with your son" - every loving couple hopes to grow old with each other hand in hand. But just as "not every love song has beautiful memories", not every marriage can go on happily all the time. Life is a combination of firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea. Life is a trivial matter. When the romantic love fantasy encounters the real world fireworks, when the "perfect bride" becomes the "yellow face" who loves to complain, how many love can withstand the dull fleeting years?
"Partner type" couples tend to grow old
Century Jiayuan, a famous dating website, conducted a survey of its 17 million single members on their views on marriage and love. One of the questions was "what kind of marriage do you want". About 67% of netizens believe that the "partner type" marriage with equality and mutual assistance and shared family responsibilities is their ideal marriage model. Mr. and Mrs. Zhu, who met and fell in love with each other at Jiayuan and have been married for one year, think they are "partner type" couples.
Both husband and wife have to work. Mrs. Zhu is also a middle-level manager of the enterprise. Their company is not far away. Every day, Mr. Zhu will pick up his wife from work, then buy vegetables together and cook at home. In the evening, they will watch movies, read books and sometimes play games together. Life is busy, but life is sweet.
Mr. Zhu said, "I think the best relationship between husband and wife is to be friends and relatives. We share the pressure of life together, but we also share the happiness of life together. We make progress together, we know the changing world together, which makes us cherish each other more."
Jason, who has not said goodbye to being single, is a university teacher. He believes that "partner type" couples are easier to grow old. "Partnership means equality and mutual assistance, which means that two people need to support each other to reach their destination. Men and women in marriage should not only support their families together, but also enjoy life together. I envy those elderly couples who walk together in the sunset. I hope I can find such happiness."
Gong Haiyan, CEO of Jiayuan Century, believes that the choice of marriage mode varies from person to person. "But in general, to maintain the happiness of marriage, two people should help each other equally. Men can't control women with their economic and physical advantages, and women can't completely depend on men. The secret of marital happiness is not money, but the true love between the two people. The so-called love is full of water."
