In China, a conservative country, the hymen is an important standard to verify the purity of women. Many modern girls like to choose cohabitation to try marriage, which seems nothing on the surface, but women pay a hidden price during cohabitation. So what are the costs that women will pay during cohabitation?
Women's reputation
Although we are talking about equality between men and women, it is not so easy to do it if we really talk about equality. Since ancient times, men who live together and break up again and again will be honored as "talented men", which is the performance of ability. Having multiple women is the capital for men to show off;
For women, it is tragic. Women who keep changing men are disgraceful and will be pointed at by others, saying that women are "fickle" and "withered".
Women's health
Compared with women's reputation, women's health costs are relatively high, which may be something you can easily ignore before cohabitation. After cohabitation, sex is inevitable. Living in different beds? Unless that man is not a man, or he doesn't love you.
There is a risk of pregnancy in sex life. If you live together and get pregnant, you will have to miscarry before you get married. It will do great harm to women's health, and it is easy to leave sequelae if it is not handled properly. The risk of pregnancy is almost entirely borne by women. Women's youth is no longer
A woman in her twenties is the most beautiful age in her life. In the past few years, it is easy to make a woman into a woman. Housework, worry, and so on will make you look more haggard. But men are successful in their careers and young and vigorous. If they can't enter marriage at this time, who will accompany women in their second youth?
Women's economic losses
In love, the other party will resist all the financial pressure, but cohabitation is different. The increase in living expenses needs to be borne by women. Less romantic love, but more financial burden. And the economic burden of living together is definitely much higher than that of living in a single apartment.
Women's psychological shadow
If you break up after cohabitation, a large part of the memories left for women belong to you and will become a psychological shadow. After cohabitation, men will become more experienced with women and know how to please and deal with women. What they get is confidence in dealing with women;
Women, on the other hand, tend to leave a psychological shadow and become more and more self-confident. They tend to get married rather than enjoy love when dealing with the next relationship.