Post Date April, 15 2023
Whether you have a long-term partner or just hooked up with someone, it's always good to talk about sex. You may say, if we have been in love or married for a long time, do we still need to chat? I have already found a way to cooperate with each other! But don't you want to try a new pattern? After all, having the same process every time can make you feel bored. So, let's talk openly. Small changes may bring great sexual benefits!
First, think about what you like about the other person. Does she have excellent kissing skills and great mouthwork? "I really like the way you kiss me. Can you do something else on my neck?" "I feel comfortable under your mouth, but I want to try it tonight..."
Take your time. Don't throw your new ideas or complaints directly at the other person. Bit by bit, imperceptibly transmitted to the TA. This way, you can try out some new moves that both of you like. Interestingly, you never know what new horizons you will reach in this exploration process.
Exploration requires a step-by-step approach. For example, you can offer to use feathers to lift each other. If you both feel good, perhaps you can try to cover your eyes next time. Of course, every time you ask your partner if they like the new pattern.
When proposing to improve your sexual life with your partner, put yourself in a different position. If the other person brings it up, what would you expect them to say so that you don't feel hurt or confused?
Suggest some areas that you can explore together. For example, "I think we can try it together..."
Find out if your partner likes your performance in bed, and leave them an opportunity to provide feedback. For example, "What aspects of our bed do you like best?" "If I were like this... would you like it?" "Have you thought of any different styles that we could try?"
Multi boot ta. Your partner doesn't know mind reading and doesn't know exactly how to excite you. So, tell them and guide them to explore your body. You can lead your hand or mouth to your hypersensitive spot. Also, give the other person the opportunity to guide you in exploring the future. During this process, you can use language to guide the TA, for example, you can say, "I really like the feeling you touch me. It's better to be light (heavier, or slower)."
