Post Date December, 03 2023
Instance:
Do you know what I will do? I will walk quickly to her side, a distance of one or two meters, and then start pretending to make a phone call. In fact, I am talking to myself into my cell phone. The voice should not be too high. It is enough for her to hear clearly.
Remember, talking loudly on the phone will show your low quality.
As for what you say to yourself, you can improvise. Generally, I will say the following
"Oh, I'm almost here. How long will you be?" (implying that you didn't mean to follow her)
"Have you brought your racket?"
"I forgot your book. I'm sorry."
Wait, wait, wait, wait,,,,,,,
In fact, it is to give the other party a psychological buffer period. Because for some girls who are particularly cautious, a man who suddenly comes up to chat up will immediately put her in a highly nervous state, and it is impossible to hear what you are talking about. In this case, it is useless to prepare any wonderful opening remarks.
The role of pretending to call is to let her get the initial information about you without pressure through talking to herself, paving the way for your real pickup.
Then you can put away your phone and turn back naturally,
Say to her, "Do you know how far it is from xxx gym?"
………………
Look, what a sunny boy! Ha ha
Of course, the above is just a small trick. I only do it occasionally. Because too much use of any pickup technique will destroy the fun of the process, and for me, the fun of the pickup process will directly affect the result of the pickup. So most of the time, I prefer to start by saying "Hello" directly.
What about scaring her? If you are scared, you should be scared. I'm talking to you. I'm not her nanny.
Courage is the key!
So, have you learned? In fact, it is very simple to chat up, and boldness is the king's way. If you want to get your sister's phone number, don't be bold.
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)
