Cecilia Cheung's Spontaneous Abortion for Four Times: Men's Action of Turning Love into a Grave

Now, the divorce demography is getting higher and higher. Even if there is no divorce, there are many families who barely maintain their family relationships. Extramarital affairs often occur. Why is it that the foundation of marriage is not solid, love has not transformed into familial love and becomes increasingly unfamiliar, and even dislikes each other? The results are all accumulated through the process, and if couples do not pay attention to communication and emotional development in their daily interactions, marriage can truly become a tomb that gives people oppression and suffocation. The incidence of extramarital affairs is still predominantly among men, so what actions will men take to accelerate the demise of marriage?

Selfishness and lack of care

Men are selfish and consider themselves first, without considering their wives at all, which can easily lead to dissatisfaction from their wives. For example, Cecilia Cheung has miscarried four times, which is the most harmful. Frequent miscarriages can lead to infertility and physical decline. The way for couples to get along requires mutual support, trust, understanding, and care. Without the nourishment of care, any amount of tolerance will consume the polish. Love is not inexhaustible, it requires constant management and irrigation with rain and dew.

be promiscuous in sex relations

Lacking a sense of family responsibility, establishing a family is only for one's own love, but without a sense of responsibility. He has no concept of marriage and family, treating family as cohabitation, so when love fades, he goes out to flirt and continue to seek "true love". Or perhaps the two of them got married with their children and rushed into the marriage before the man had a family concept. A man has not yet grown up and treats his family casually, treating himself as an unmarried man and having an affair or relationship with others. Such a man's family will always have a red light on, and having a family is equivalent to having no family.

Gather less and separate more

Couples who spend less time together and more time apart can easily have problems. Now there is a saying that goes, "Distance does not produce beauty, it is the third. Couples gather less and leave more all year round. When a man is in need, when he is lonely, when he is tired, without the comfort and companionship of his wife, it is easy to feel lonely and lonely. If a considerate girl accompanies him at this time, he is likely to cheat. Without physical infidelity, one can also engage in mental infidelity.

Connecting with an old love

The resurgence of old love is a very easy thing to happen, because after leaving, the shortcomings of old love are discarded and the advantages are constantly amplified in nostalgia. If the old love's marriage is unfortunate at this time, it is easy to arouse his pity. Then as soon as they talked and reminisced about the good old times, their old love immediately reignited. How many families are now broken up because of old love. Time is the best whitening job, beautifying all past arguments and controversies. Your smile and beauty in memory are all beautiful. And when men experience marriage for a long time and the days fade, they will face old love and the lost emotions will surge again.

Going out to seek comfort

Men who have not received warmth and attention in their families for a long time, cannot satisfy their desire to conquer and sense of achievement, or are under too much pressure, during a transitional or dangerous period of life, are hindered in their careers or promotions, and do not receive the understanding and comfort of their wives, they will seek other women to confide in. Frequent contact and communication cannot be said to lead to a lasting relationship. Junichi Watanabe's "Paradise Lost" is like this in Kuki.