Post Date December, 03 2023
Q:
In fact, I'm puzzled. If you don't love me, divorce me. Why bother me?
The first time I found my husband and the third child was that they were going to cross the New Year together. The man who was nearly 40 years old was playing romantic. On the New Year's Day of the 15th year, he said to me in advance that there was a project in a branch company in other places, and there was a problem with the progress. He would go to follow it in person. OK, I believe it, and also told him to pay attention to his health and stay up late. The result was stimulated by a picture deleted by his circle of friends. That was the hand that two people held together with their fingers crossed. It was romantic. On the first day of the new year, he left this kind of memorial with other women.
Later, of course, I didn't want to listen to his explanation. He told me about Xiao San and said that he had no intention, so I didn't think much. At that time, as long as he didn't commit it again, I just warned him.
It didn't take long for him to lie to me again. He had the same excuse. When the company had something to do, he actually went on vacation with the junior. The junior has no job and has a lot of time to spend every day. He hides his wife in a golden house, and the two people fight like this. I swallowed blood and tears into my stomach, and I thought nothing of it. I felt that he was disgusting and not the person I loved at the beginning. This time I wanted to get a divorce, but he refused.
He knelt down to beg for forgiveness and moved out of two parents to make peace. My parents scolded him, and he took it all. He just begged me not to divorce him, so I became soft again.
Not long after he was well, his old relationship with the third child flared up again, and he still used an excuse to prevaricate with me. What's busy, what can't get away from me, what's the end of the year, a large number of reasons are all lies. I was a little desperate. I spoke with the third child on the phone, and the third child clearly said that she would not break up with my husband on her own initiative, and she didn't ask for marriage. She only wanted my husband to stay with her, and didn't care about anything else, I really don't understand what girls think now, how can they have no sense of right and wrong, and no sense of shame, and my husband is cheating me every day for such a woman... I still have a family, but where does it look like? My husband lies, doesn't go home, and doesn't divorce. I don't know what my tomorrow will be like. Every day is very painful, very painful
A:
Marriage and lovers bring men different things. Marriage is the city of men, giving them a sense of belonging and security, while lovers are the desire of men, who can pursue excitement, novelty and various patterns. If only men are allowed to choose, they are often unable to give up their desire and are not willing to lose the city.
Because of their daily companionship, wives tend to be too familiar with their husbands and neglect the part of caring for men's lusts. Some men are eager to be unsatisfied in marriage. Men with strong self-discipline will choose to suppress their impulses for the sake of responsibility. Others will choose to forget family temporarily in the face of external temptation.
They do not love their wives and families at all, but they are exposed to temptation and it is difficult to get out of it. Just like your husband, he was terrified when you mentioned divorce. However, once the rear area settled down, he would repeat the same trick.
Your analysis of the mistress's psychology is of no help. How to persuade the mistress to be dismissed can be handed over to a professional team. The key is to understand the husband's psychology. If there is no mistress, how can your husband and wife adjust their relationship mode so as not to cause other mistresses to intervene in the marriage? How to rebuild trust? Experts can help you separate your mistress. How to keep your marriage fresh is a lifelong topic.
