Post Date December, 03 2023
Divorce can actually test a person's cultivation the most. Many people take extreme or other measures during divorce, and most of them turn into enemies between spouses, which not only harms the marriage but also harms it. As the Buddhist saying goes, everything has a cause and effect. So, there must be a reason for this result.
Nowadays, the divorce demography is getting higher and higher, but the high divorce demography is accompanied by the betrayal of one party, the indifference of the husband and wife relationship, domestic violence and other injuries. When the victim ends this injury, they will naturally take the same approach to quell their frantic resentment. In fact, these are not outdated ways to treat others in their own way, and through this extreme approach to quell and make up for the imbalance they have suffered in their hearts.
Many couples divorce after a long period of struggle, compromise, and injury, both parties are exhausted, and eventually have to leave. But they always reminisce about the beauty of the past, not to say divorce with beautiful memories, but to transform this beauty into negative energy, turning it into sadness, anger, and resentment. Especially when considering factors such as the elderly, children, and face, I finally made up my mind and lost all patience.
In the eyes of Chinese people, divorce is the severing of love and righteousness. After divorce, you take your path and I cross my single wooden bridge. Everyone always feels that divorce is a very embarrassing thing, which not only brings shame to the family but also hollows out their own hearts. In order to avoid this sense of humiliation, one may regard their former lover as an enemy or a passerby. They will die of old age without communication, and only when they do not want to, and do not see in the eyes, will there be no resentment in their hearts. So many divorced children will completely lose one party.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
