Can Drinking Really Help Sex? What couples need to do to have a harmonious sexual life

It seems that many people say that drinking alcohol is more severe than usual. But is it really the case? Does drinking help or fail?

1. Small amounts of alcohol make men more durable

There is some truth in the folk saying that drinking is better than getting married. Zhu Guoxin, the chief physician of the andrology department of Zhengzhou Central Hospital, said that when the amount of alcohol consumed reaches a certain level, making the human body in an anesthetic state, it can inhibit sexual excitement, but the inhibition has not yet reached the level of dysfunction, instead extending the male ejaculation latency, playing a role in improving the symptoms of premature ejaculation.

2. Excessive drinking ruins action

However, excessive alcohol consumption can inhibit the central nervous system of alcohol, interfere with the neural reflex pathway of sexual impulse stimulation, inhibit male penis erection, and inhibit female sexual arousal.

Of course, being drunk cannot be considered sexual behavior. If excessive intoxication or even acute alcoholism can cause respiratory depression, it is not only sexual inhibition, but also life threatening.

3. Chronic alcohol abuse can cause sexual dysfunction

As for long-term alcohol abuse, it is more likely to lead to sexual dysfunction. There are three reasons: First, long-term alcohol stimulation reduces the sensitivity of the central nervous system, which also decreases sexual sensitivity, decreased libido, difficulty erecting, and difficulty ejaculating after erection. Second, alcohol damages liver function, causing liver metabolism and conversion of male hormones. In the long run, the level of male hormones in the blood decreases, and third, it damages testicular tissue, resulting in a decrease in male hormones

Never do these things in sexual life!

1. Too passive. Many women believe that men should be proactive in sex, but women are actually more proactive in their sexual lives, which can significantly improve sexual satisfaction and ability. Always putting yourself in a passive state can increase sexual pressure on men, and the frequency of sexual intercourse can also be affected. In couples' lives, women suggest taking control and learning to seduce them.

2. Not confident in your body. Confidence is the engine of sexual desire, but many women worry about their body shape during sex and do not want to take off their clothes to refuse sex. Surveys have shown that men do not pay much attention to the weight loss of women's bodies during sex, while plump women are prone to arousing male desire. It is recommended that women exercise more, maintain their skin after bathing, and increase confidence.

3. Silence. Silence is the enemy of sexual love. A French survey found that when having sex, a partner is silent, and silence is the most unacceptable behavior for men. The subtext of this is that I am not at all interested in your behavior. Make sure to make a sound during sex. Whether it's a low moan or a simple compliment, it's a catalyst for a perfect sexual life and a great encouragement for your partner.

4. Pretend an orgasm. Many women fake orgasms during sex, believing that this is a white lie to their lovers. In fact, boys can easily identify whether their partner is really orgasmic through their facial expressions and breathing sounds. Pretending an orgasm can cause psychological frustration on both sides, and later the orgasm rate will be lower. It is recommended that women actively communicate when they do not have an orgasm.

5. Rarely caress a man. Modern scientific research believes that the most important aspect of sexuality is the sense of touch. Liking to touch and kiss sensitive parts can fully open the door to sexual pleasure. Enjoying caress is not a woman's exclusive right, and men also need to mobilize their emotions and feel loved through caress. It is recommended that women caress men more and develop their sexual sensitivity.

6. "Too selfish" in sex. Sexual love is a process of satisfaction for both parties. If a woman pays too much attention to her own happiness, or even instructs a man about it, it can disappoint her partner. It is recommended that women ask men how they feel while satisfying themselves.

How to live a harmonious sexual life?

1. Priority for sexual life

Happy couples view sexual life as an important component of a harmonious relationship. If possible, they will protect their sexual lives and meet their sexual needs.

2. Scheduled roommate date

Appointing a date for sharing a room will deepen the relationship between husband and wife, and their feelings will be mutual traction and longing. If you happen to have an argument on an agreed evening, you should know how to put aside your worries and focus on having a happy sexual life. This often unconsciously eliminates your worries and solves the conflicts caused by the argument.

3. Sexual Diversity

"Love and consideration for each other are of course important factors in enhancing the relationship between husband and wife.". Harmonious and happy couples can see the tenderness between them through their language, behavior, and eyes. Such couples can be described as ducks. No, their sexual life is happy.

4. The mystery of touch

Happy couples are more sensitive than ordinary people, and they know the knowledge of touch. Touching, hugging, and kissing not only transmit sexual stimulation, but also can simmer the "heat" of sexual desire. Some psychologists tell people that touching and kissing often provide more sexual satisfaction than sexual intercourse. Secret couples who are ignorant of sex should pay attention to cultivating their touch knowledge.

5. Make life full of humor

Humor can also help increase sexual interest. One day, a husband received an anonymous letter, which said, "Beautiful man, if you agree and enjoy a passionate evening, please come to Xianshan Hotel tomorrow evening at 8 o'clock.". The husband recognized that it was his wife's handwriting and was punctual for the appointment. Indeed, he spent a night full of connotations and unique interests.