Post Date December, 03 2023
No one would find money hot, but what if it was earned by their wife? Perhaps, the number is not a problem. The problem is that "the economic foundation determines the superstructure". The party who makes more money is easy to become a "talker", leaving men with no place to put their face.
Factional disputes
Diehards
Representative viewpoint: Women's wealth leads to their arrogance
Being able to make money is an important measure for women to measure men. Men have no money, women feel embarrassed and unwilling to mention their men; Rich men are not afraid to mention their women, whether they are beautiful or not, as long as they do not give them a green hat.
A man with money is very willing to spend it on a woman, as long as that woman is really good to him. As a man who is a wealthy woman, don't expect women to actively give you money to spend. "If you have the ability, earn it yourself!" is what they say.
It doesn't matter what men have when they have money, as long as they don't care too much; Women are richer than men, and she will demand that men be gentle and considerate towards her, be in charge both inside and outside, and find ways to make money.
Affirmative faction
Representative viewpoint: Who doesn't make money?
Whose money is not money? Everyone earns from home. With so many female leaders and CEOs nowadays, are they all just living? Having a wife who earns more means that her husband's pressure is reduced, the financial situation of the entire family is improved, and she can relieve the pressure of buying a house and providing housing earlier. She has time and free money to travel, and why not pursue a high quality of life?
The Way to Get Along
Money is not a problem, relying on money's attitude is the problem
It seems that both views have some truth. When two perspectives are put together, it is clearer to see that the problem lies not in money, but in attitude. If a woman has money, she becomes arrogant, looks down on her husband, neglects his existence, and blindly puts demands or pressure on him, which can easily lead to problems; If a wife has money, a man will have a strange and negative attitude, feeling that his self-esteem is damaged and he cannot withstand external pressure. However, it is not conducive to marriage to face difficulties for his wife everywhere.
Rich women: We should attach great importance to his opinions
Money is something that can enhance a sense of achievement, which can easily cultivate a proud self and dominate various things, breaking the balance of traditional families. This is the easiest place for conflicts to arise. Don't take it for granted that you are more difficult to bear. All the decisions you make are for the good of your family. Be sure to discuss important family decisions with your husband, not in a formal way, but carefully listen to their suggestions. Don't forget to maintain the spirit of both of you, synchronize the spiritual world, and focus more on the activities you both like, such as play badminton and watching a movie.
At the same time, like in TVB TV dramas, an important criterion for a good wife is to be very kind to her family. No matter how many people you manage outside, you must fulfill your obligations to his family, which is sometimes even more important than being good to him personally. No matter how busy you are, important family days must appear, which can make up for many of your absent moments.
Men, consider their wives who can make money their greatest pride
Don't be extreme. Your wife is also a beneficiary of making money, so first of all, be calm and don't be too fixated on traditional thinking and the opinions of others. You don't just benefit financially from having a wealthy wife. The female lead is less likely to focus solely on whether her husband will return home early or who she will chat with, and is more likely to show a "selfless" side. She will not haggle over how much money she will give to her husband's family.
Also, remember to take out the accumulated dissatisfaction and share it with others, and tell them where your dissatisfaction lies - it's not something she can feel, it needs to be clearly stated. At the same time, the more money you earn, the greater the pressure, and the unparalleled beauty of your wife's emotional regulator is none other than you.
