Post Date December, 02 2023
For a normal family, if the child is gay, the parents may be distressed. Although homosexuality is also a normal love, ordinary families can not accept it. So how did homosexuality come into being? This has something to do with puppy love. Traditional ideas limit children's feelings, and puppy love is the biggest constraint. If parents, teachers and elders blindly block it and limit children's feelings, it may lead to children's fear of the opposite sex, and then homosexuality.
It is normal for adolescent boys and girls to have a favorable impression on the opposite sex. In the face of their puppy love, the most important and most needed thing is the correct guidance of parents and teachers, rather than blindly "blocking", let alone "misleading" in concept.
At present, we often see two same-sex children calling each other their wives and husbands on the campus of junior high school and senior high school. According to the traditional way of thinking, two girls (boys) are close together or cuddle and cuddle seems to be a manifestation of friendship. Neither classmates, parents nor teachers will criticize this kind of behavior. In fact, this is a misleading concept.
In real life, what most parents and teachers pay attention to and prohibit is often the close contact between the opposite sex. As long as they find that the contact between children and friends of the opposite sex is a little frequent, they will show up in front of children in a single mode of "parents come forward to dissuade, teachers come to talk". Little did they know that this practice not only failed to achieve their desired purpose, but also might make children feel excluded or afraid of the opposite sex in choosing partners.
Psychological research shows that every child needs idols in the process of growth, especially for adolescent boys and girls. Due to a human instinctive worship need, many boys and girls like to imitate their favorite stars' every move and hope to be recognized by their classmates, especially those of the opposite sex.
In addition, they also have a natural need to love, not only to love others, but also to be loved. If parents and teachers blindly adopt an arbitrary "ban" on children's puppy love, it may cause immature children to fear the opposite sex. Over time, this unreleased love will naturally deviate from the track of same-sex.
