Post Date April, 15 2023
Sociologists have found that although the possibility of divorce runs through marriage, there are four periods that are most dangerous.
The first dangerous period
When the child is born, the pressure of the couple suddenly increases, the original play and entertainment are greatly reduced, and the quality of sexual life is reduced. The "triangle" relationship generated by the arrival of the child has changed the original "two world", and the husband and wife feel nervous, confused and confused about marriage at the same time.
Second danger period
Four to five years after marriage, couples tend to find life dull and boring. The husband has worked for many years, but has no bright future, and is more lazy to do housework; The wife has to work and take care of the children. She is too busy. Both husband and wife have no free time to love each other. At this time, they may find another bosom friend. A sociologist surveyed 70 women who had an affair with a married husband and found that most of these extramarital affairs began with simple friendship. When a husband or wife confides to others what they should have said to each other, both husband and wife are to blame.
The third dangerous period
A survey by sociologists about seven years after marriage found that between the sixth and tenth years after marriage, the degree of satisfaction with marriage fell to the lowest point. In fact, the divorce rate also peaked in the seventh to tenth years after marriage. At this time, both husband and wife should help each other with the utmost patience and care to ensure the quality of marriage.
The fourth dangerous period
At this time, about 20 years after marriage, the physical conditions of both men and women have gradually changed. When the wife enters the menopause, she is often agitated and worried about losing her charm, while the husband is worried about getting old - he is no longer energetic, his talent is no longer agile, he can't play basketball but his son, and his promotion is hopeless. At this time, he was in need of understanding and comfort, and his wife also had the same request. If the husband and wife cannot give to each other, he or she may go to other opposite sex to find.
