Although men are promiscuous, it is not easy to succeed as long as they are well controlled. Especially at the following critical moments when men are prone to derail, as long as preventive measures are taken, extramarital love can be prevented.
1、 Before and after pregnancy
Because women often have no time to worry about themselves at this time, some husbands who have not lost their playfulness tend to appear irritable and seek comfort from other opposite sex quietly. To this end, women during pregnancy should try to control their own emotional fluctuations, try to maintain their own attractiveness, especially use the role of expectant mother and expectant father to strengthen their feelings;
2、 After separation
If you have no choice but to live in two places due to work, household registration and other reasons, it is essential to maintain close contact.
Modern means of communication are diverse, and love letters, e-mail, telephone, ICQ, etc. can be used comprehensively to weave a network of feelings as far as possible.
Of course, it is better to arrange time to get together on festivals or some special days. As for people who are separated because of conflicts, they should be treated calmly with a problem-solving attitude and should not be blindly angry, because anger can only drive people crazy.
Moreover, such separation can only happen occasionally, and a short time limit should be set. Once separation becomes a habit, extramarital love can easily become a reality.
3、 Career setback
People need to find the fulcrum and happiness in life at work. Once they are faced with unemployment and frustration, it is inevitable that their mood will fluctuate. If you don't get your wife's strong care and support at this time, it's easy to derail your feelings. Women should never be careless.
4、 Get promoted and become rich
It is self-evident that we should be full of warmth and lust. In addition to being happy with the progress of her husband, women should also have a sense of pressure on themselves, and strive to turn pressure into power and constantly seek progress. Don't hold the old tune of respecting your husband and wife, because it can only make you stop thinking ahead. Once your husband thinks you can't catch up, he may run away by himself, and it's no use crying then.
5、 When family changes
There is an example of a couple who originally loved each other so much that their 3-year-old daughter suddenly died of illness. Under great grief, the wife complained all day that her husband did not take care of her daughter, which made her husband unbearable and had to escape until she had an extramarital affair and left home. Therefore, when similar situations occur, only a peaceful, positive and common attitude can face misfortune. This is especially noteworthy for women who are more emotional.
6、 Contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
It is a rather thorny problem for the husband to disagree with his wife. When he couldn't handle it, he had to flee alone. As a woman, it is the key to grasp the key to marriage. As long as we grasp these keys, we can keep marriage. Protect a happy family.