Post Date December, 02 2023
"Being a man is more tiring than being a man. The pressure is great, and I feel aggrieved. Sometimes I really want to cry. But considering that if I cry, I will be scolded as a loser, so I have to resist crying and swallow my tears." A friend once said to me. Chinese men have always had the heroic words of "men do not shed tears when they bleed" and "men do not play lightly when they shed tears".
But how many people can really understand men's sufferings? As a man, if he wants to survive in this society, he must endure the loneliness brought by the extreme environment, bear all kinds of pressures and setbacks in society and family, learn how to make himself strong and brave, and learn to resolve the fear, pain and inner emotional fluctuations.
In fact, men also have a weak and gentle side, and sometimes feel sad and aggrieved, but men are bound by many secular ideas. What kind of man has no tears, and what kind of hero has no tears, so the tears that a man can express his emotions with great joy are buried deep in his heart. It is often tears that flow into the heart, putting all the pressure and pain in the heart. At the same time, we should also smile to face the people around us.
But who knows what men are suffering from?
Men also play a leading role in society and family. Hard, tired and dirty jobs are often men's patents. It is men's duty to support their families. Whether the family can be happy or not depends more on the creation of men who are exhausted. The taste of life fully shows that men are capable, and the poor life is that men have no ability.
The pressure of work, the gossip of society, the complaints of wives and children, and the cruelty of real life are like a rope around the neck, which makes men exhausted. Loneliness and loss are often borne alone. Even if you are overwhelmed, you should work hard, because you are a man, a man, and a man, and who will go to hell if you don't go to hell.
Men always want to cry without tears. The shaping of the idea of "men bleed without tears" for thousands of years has wiped out the right of men to cry. Men can only hide their pain and sorrow in their hearts and show their seemingly strong in their actions.
Men also have feelings of fear, grievance, sadness, pain and vulnerability. The hidden rules of men's behavior are like a shackle of the soul. Men have to wear a so-called strong mask.
In fact, people who are strong will also be tired. Don't let invisible pressure pressure you too tired. Let go of all the shackles of the secular world, let go of the feelings you can express, and free your repressed heart. Cry bitterly. Men, roar out their dissatisfaction and pressure on the world and cry out!
Men cry. Crying is not a sin. Let the whole world know that men have their own sufferings. Why is crying only for women? We should completely break down this ideological model. Men also have their own personalities. Don't think that men are omnipotent if they have their own temper.
