Post Date December, 03 2023
When men are young, they enjoy playing and are more inclined to fall in love rather than getting married. If a lover urges someone to get married at this time, some men who do not want to be bound will run faster than anyone else. The words' marriage is the tomb of love ',' marriage is the burial ground of freedom ', and' marriage is a besieged city 'are often spoken about. Single men will express silent condolences to their soon to be married buddies and celebrate their final freedom revelry, which can effectively demonstrate young men's respect for marriage.
However, once men make up their minds to get married, their emphasis on marriage can surprise women. A man is willing to spend everything to maintain the integrity of his family, and he can give everything for the sake of his family. Once he gets into a marriage, he won't come up with it. Even if the marriage is only superficial, he will continue to live with his estranged wife and support them until old age. He pretended to be deaf and mute when his wife cheated, believing that there was no such thing and hoping that his wife could return to her family; If you cheat on yourself, no matter how colorful the flags outside are, you won't insert them into your home. The first wife, the first wife, is a person who stays together for a lifetime. Therefore, when a man is preparing to get married, he will be cautious and cautious in choosing his partner.
Men stay away from women who have a rich premarital sexual life. When a man is in love, he goes straight to the woman's body and is used to trying sex before marriage, but he is dissatisfied with his wife's premarital sex. He hoped that his wife would be a pure virgin. Although this condition is difficult to achieve now, he also hoped that his wife would have as little premarital sex as possible. Men are more strict than women and lenient than themselves, so don't believe that when men fall in love, "I don't mind your past, everyone has a past." For your past, cover it up and don't mention it. It's not that you want to lie and pretend to be a virgin, but there's no need to mention it, not even to miss it. Men are very sensitive to this aspect, and in your past, men often mind very much.
Men often shy away from women who are too trendy and beautiful. When a man falls in love, he likes his girlfriend to be beautiful and trendy, which can give him a long face when taken out. Gaining the envy of other men will make him proud. But if they marry, they will avoid such women. Men generally believe that women who are too beautiful will feel uneasy and easily fall out of love, which is due to their lack of confidence in themselves. Therefore, men prefer women who dress plainly and have a plain face.
Men will take a detour towards those realistic women. Men are actually very concerned about women's motives for marrying them, especially those with relatively good conditions and complete RVs. They were worried that women marrying him would value their assets over him, which would make him very frustrated. Therefore, men tend to detour with realistic women and tend to marry women who are less concerned about material life. Nowadays, many men who own houses and cars will conceal their assets during romantic relationships to test whether the other party truly loves him.
Men are not attracted to strong women. Men subconsciously have some male chauvinism, hoping to dominate their families and workplaces, so men are always ambitious. However, strong women are too strong, which puts them in a weak position and completely undermines their masculinity. This can damage their self-esteem, so they will only detour towards strong women. Modern Chengdu girls and female white-collar workers in Wuxi have put up huge marriage advertisements at the bus station and train station, and many men say that they show off their wealth and cannot afford to climb high.
Men are petite and women do not catch a cold. Those petite women are too delicate and often need to do their own little tricks. Once or twice, they can still be used as a hobby, but more times it makes men avoid it. Moreover, petite women are too delicate to tolerate grievances. Men cannot be sure that they can get along well with their parents and will avoid being filial to them. Men often favor women with virtuous wives and mothers, who will get along well with their parents. Men who marry are very concerned about their parents' opinions, and only when their parents are satisfied will they consider getting married. Therefore, women with virtuous wives and good mothers are most favored by men.
When a man marries a wife, he will also consider the woman's family. It is best for the woman's family to be a powerful and influential group, which can save him decades of struggle; Secondly, the other party's parents have stable work and do not need to provide for themselves; In addition, men hope that their wives are the youngest at home, and even if they are not the youngest, they also hope that there is a younger sister below them instead of a younger brother. Women whose parents have no jobs, are poor, have a broken family, and have younger brothers burdening their entire family will make men avoid them, let alone get married. Even if they are in a relationship, they will not consider it, afraid that the other party will fall for them. Men like to marry women with legitimate careers, without being too outstanding, as long as they have a stable income. For secretarial men, they will not consider it because there is common sense in the secular world, and secretaries and bosses generally have a relationship that is constantly being cut and sorted out; For women who work in nightclubs, they also stay away from them. As the saying goes, "You can't walk by the river without getting your shoes wet." He doesn't want to wear a green hat inexplicably one day.
