Romantic marriage
Pursue romantic love life, have high requirements for marriage life, expect the sweetness and harmony of newlyweds to be maintained forever, love is colorful, and passion must be lasting. This unrealistic expectation, once not realized in real life, will cause friction and conflict between the two conveniences, which will lead to serious marriage problems.
Overdependence on parent-type marriage
Couples who rely too much on their parents, when there is any problem in their marital life, do not discuss with their spouses how to cope with the burden, but separately seek support or instructions from their parents. Married couples should understand that their future is connected with their spouse, and they should regard each other as the most trusted and closest person. Otherwise, such marriages will generally fail because of "seeking external intervention".
Perfect marriage
They are required to be perfect in everything, and both spouses are required to meet their own highest standards. This kind of marriage will cause unnecessary friction due to high requirements. Over time, even a good marriage relationship will not be easy to maintain.
"Frugal" marriage
Even if the family is in good economic conditions at present, they are always worried about the good times, too frugal, not allowing the spouse to have more entertainment or enjoyment in life, even depriving themselves and their family of some basic life needs and fun, and psychologically bearing too much worry without understanding the emotional life with their spouse.
A marriage of hypochondriasis
This usually happens to women. They often suspect that they are ill and complain about themselves. In fact, they want to attract the attention and care of their spouses. The result is often self-defeating, which makes them feel upset.
"Always right" marriage
Being too picky about your spouse, always criticizing your spouse's actions and thoughts in front of others, and thinking that you love each other, the result is unbearable. This will cause the other party to leave you.
Careful and considerate marriage
All things, big or small, are offered for service. Occasionally, carelessness will become the fuse of conflict and friction. Take good care of your spouse. For a long time, if the other party does not make the corresponding return, you will feel psychological imbalance and easily cause feelings to crack.
Busy with "career" marriage
Some people will never be quiet and are always busy. They have no holidays and no rest. This will always make their spouses feel left out. If such people do not control themselves and spend more time with their spouses, even for their career, they will also lead to the breakdown of marriage.