Post Date December, 03 2023
Women always hope to become the most important and unique existence in a man's life, so often they blindly give everything they have, but the results are often counterproductive. Smart women should be adept at analyzing men's psychology and giving them what they want.
1. Be a capable assistant and counselor for men
A virtuous wife should not only be virtuous, but also neglect to possess both virtue and wisdom.
The most precious thing about a woman behind a man is these two points. Just because you love him doesn't mean you follow him or obey him without principles. That way, men will think that you have no thoughts and are a wife, but not a woman.
A woman who truly takes a man seriously must have a plan in mind, that is, when a man is in high spirits, you should always remind him not to slip off guard.
Encourage him when his career is going smoothly, supervise and stop him when he encounters difficulties in his career, keep him clear headed, so as not to lose.
This way, men will benefit from your advice, and they will also respect you as a woman with ideas and brains, and such a woman is a woman with skills.
2. The strongest energy for men is love
It is said that behind a successful man there must be a good woman who supports him, and this is true. But this good woman is not the full-time nanny who revolves around the pot all day.
Career oriented men face unpredictable challenges in their work every day, and their psychological pressure comes from intangible battles without fixed patterns.
But men are generally strong on the outside but weak on the inside in terms of emotions, because they are not good at using language to share the inner pressure with women.
So, to make your men better, the strongest energy input to them is to give them true love.
Allow them to experience physical and mental relief from the pressure and tension they endure during their hard work. Don't let them feel that their career is tight and their marriage is like a tomb.
3. Be the most loyal fan of men's careers and lives
Men's resilience is also compromised in the face of setbacks and setbacks. When they struggle in their careers, external forces are superficial and only serve as persuasion, with no substantive effect.
And the support, understanding, assistance, trust, and following from one's own wife who never gives up are incomparable to any external cause.
And this power cannot be expressed solely through action, but rather through a combination of behavior, language, and thought.
A woman with a heart knows how to become a man's most loyal fan by taking care of him in life, encouraging him in language, and unifying his thoughts when he is in trouble.
In this way, your man will treat you as a spiritual pillar, love you, and cannot do without you.
4. Not being a mouth breaker in front of men
Women with broken mouths have lower IQ. I always want to change men and control them with women's petty citizen thinking. I hope men can be at her mercy in their own design plans.
The biggest mistake for such a woman is not understanding a man's mentality. Who knows the two types of women that men least appreciate in marriage? One is the broken mouthed woman who nags all day, and the other is the unkempt yellow faced woman.
A nagging woman can interfere with a man's correct way of thinking and handling things at work, while a woman who is too talkative can make those rational career oriented men bored, even rejected or distanced.
Endless nagging is a taboo in marriage, and for women with a heart, it is wise to keep it to the point.
5. Persuade people with reason and do not confront men
A big man, he is so strong, wants face, and has strong self-esteem. No matter how powerful a woman is, she is also his wife in the eyes of men.
Men do not accept true female strongmen psychologically, while those who are competitive often prioritize themselves, disregarding the face of men, and constantly argue with men about disagreements and controversies in marriage, proud of being able to dominate.
And men are the least skilled at arguing endlessly. Some things are not that they cannot stand up to reason, but rather that they would rather tolerate and avoid being provoked.
A truly insightful woman knows how to persuade others with reason, not to confront men, and to speak with facts, leaving men speechless. This not only gives men face but also makes them convinced.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
