Post Date December, 02 2023
Nowadays, the ranks of leftover women are becoming increasingly large. However, throughout the ranks of leftover women, it can be found that the most vulnerable to becoming leftover women are the "white rich and beautiful" with excellent qualifications and good looks. I believe many people are just as surprised as the editor, but this is indeed the case. So, why is Bai Fumei most likely to become a leftover woman? Let's take a look together.
1. Careful - Ignoring the love around you
Most Bai Fumei have a stable job and become the backbone of the unit through their own efforts, making them indispensable figures in the unit. However, it is precisely because such women focus on their careers, and when they are young, they always think they are still young. Their main focus should be on work, and they always think it is still early for love. Although there are also many excellent boys around who are courting themselves, they all refuse or procrastinate on the grounds of work, so that after marrying and becoming fathers, these excellent boys suddenly feel that they have become leftover women, past the optimal age for marriage, and the rush of love around them can only be remembered in their minds.
2. High education - looking for a suitable man
Bai Fumei have a common characteristic, that is, they usually have higher educational qualifications. "A high education level brings them a general sense of superiority, and they always want to find a boy who is higher than their own education level or at least commensurate with them as their target. Unfortunately, the crowd is vast, and although there are boys who are higher than their own education level or commensurate with them, either the other party is unwilling or they are unwilling. Suddenly, they discover that they are interested in and the other party is also interested in their target, but finally, they find that their education level is not as good as theirs, and they always feel a sense of loss.", Finally, I lost this love in hesitation.
3. High status - high and cold
Another common characteristic of Bai Fumei is their high status. Bai Fumei is at a higher level both in the organization and in society, and many even top leaders in the organization. These people usually come into contact with men at the same level, who only care about their work and do not care about your family. In addition, these men often have families, and high-level men tend to be corrupt in their lives, which makes Bai Fumei look down upon. Therefore, it is difficult for Bai Fumei to find someone who can fall in love in their ordinary lives. Although there are many excellent men among the staff around them, they tend to be their subordinates, who look up to them and only enjoy and understand them at work, rarely meeting emotionally. Moreover, when it comes to falling in love with a subordinate, I always feel that I can't save face. Even if I really like an excellent subordinate in my heart, I can only become the object of my dream, and I always feel a sense of loss in reality. Unconsciously, she wasted her time and became one of the outstanding leftover women.
4. Too independent - think about each other with self thinking
Bai Fumei also has a significant characteristic: strong independence. They have their own stable income, their own property, vehicles, and do not need to rely on any man to survive, let alone rely on marriage to change their fate. Therefore, when dealing with love, they always think before and after, thinking too much, for fear that love will become a scam, and that their favorite love scam will hurt them. Xing Xing didn't have one of the same outstanding young men in the end, but she thought too much about each other's family, cultural background, and even the meaning behind every sentence he said, which ultimately led to her losing a good opportunity.
5. Extensive experience - too picky about love
The fourth characteristic of Bai Fumei is rich experience. Due to their high status, they see a lot of things, which means they have rich experience. In their lives, although they have read countless men, they know where their weaknesses lie, and those dark and unseemly activities make her feel the horror of men. It is far from their imagined love. Therefore, in their love stories, they always try to avoid finding these men. Upon careful investigation, once they discover that the other party has such words and deeds, they will choose to withdraw. Their belief is that it is better to lack than abuse. "But there are really too few perfect men in their minds in reality, and being able to find a perfect man may prove more effective than finding a panda, so they just pick and choose.".
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