Sexual Health
Avoiding 6 Burden Mindsets to Make Sex More Calm, Beware of Insufficient Experience and Destroy Your Sexual Experience
Achieving orgasm in sexual life requires complete psychological integration between both parties to reach the highest level, so when making love, it is necessary to overcome psychological barriers and reach a higher orgasm peak.
1. Terrorist psychology
This kind of psychology can be roughly divided into three types: one is afraid of pregnancy, giving birth to children, tense thoughts during sexual intercourse, and unable to fully devote oneself; The second is to worry about the pain of hymen rupture, the mental burden is too heavy, affecting the mood; Thirdly, some women have been raped by unfamiliar men before marriage, and have an instinctive resistance towards men. Even if they have sex with their husbands, they still have lingering palpitations. As a husband, we should patiently guide patients to take medication when dealing with symptoms, and at the same time, we should step by step in the "operation" and not act too hastily.
2. Not in a good mood
Xiaolan used to have sex with her husband very harmoniously. However, since her husband stopped paying and stayed in the factory due to poor performance, she couldn't find anything to do for a while. She had been feeling oppressed for a while, and her husband had sex with her, using his family skills, but it was also difficult for her to achieve orgasm. However, as long as her husband finds a suitable job and realizes his life value, her symptoms will naturally disappear.
3. Lack of experience
Sexual experience, like other experiences, must be gradually acquired through practice. There are many girls who have sex and are embarrassed to communicate with their peers, but also inconvenient to seek advice from their superiors. They have no idea what "female orgasm" is. For example, there is a pediatrician who has been married for 2 years and still doesn't know what "orgasm" is. Doctors are still like this, and other women are naturally more ignorant. There is only one solution: practice more and gradually explore skills through practice.
4. Subordinate ideology
Many girls are in a "subordinate position" in their marital sexual life. They believe that having sex with their husbands can only be "dedication", not "taking", and "obedience" is the nature of women. Therefore, their enjoyment of sexual life can only come from experiencing her husband's level of sexual satisfaction, which naturally suppresses their feelings. I advise such women to open up their minds and have absolute equality between men and women in sexual love.
Avoiding 6 Burden Mindsets to Make Sex More Calm
1. Don't force your partner to have sex.
There are certain differences in sexual abilities between men and women, and individual sexual abilities also decline with age, which is a natural law. Of course, sexual desire is also influenced by work, emotions, health, and other factors. There are always differences in sexual desire between men and women, so it is not necessary to require partners to maintain consistency, otherwise it may make sexual activity mechanical and lose "sexual interest" over time.