Post Date December, 03 2023
Whether it is love or friendship, it is necessary to maintain an appropriate distance. But if both parties have genuine feelings. Often one party will spoil the other. In this kind of trade-off, it is often easier to lose the other party. So at this point, disconnecting becomes very important for whether we can successfully retrieve our girlfriend. Specifically, it is manifested in the following aspects:
First: Disconnect, let time test your relationship
If there is a relationship between you, time becomes the best witness. If you love someone, you must be deeply attached to them. Similarly, if they love you, they must also have you in their hearts. If a loved one is lost due to time, it is definitely not true love. If the other party loves you, they will not be willing to leave. So, disconnecting and seeing if she will come back to find you is also a fulfillment of love between you. Many times we always think we love each other and go our own way. After a long separation, we will start to introspect and self examine. Many times we think that the other party will love us as we imagine. It took a long time to realize that we were all deceiving ourselves. If time passes, no matter how many arguments and troubles, the other party can let bygones be bygones, and she still has you in her heart, then that means she truly loves you.
Secondly, disconnection can help each other learn tolerance
Two people often get together, inevitably experiencing conflicts and friction, and even starting to look down on each other in their words. Even small things can make a big fuss. Because there have been too many problems accumulated, neither of them will let each other down. But disconnecting two people can help each other learn to tolerate each other. Because disconnection can make two people feel fresh at first and then miss each other. Of course, you should be wary of the other party taking the opportunity to transfer their feelings to another relationship. Breaking a connection is to help you all sort out your messy emotions and think about how to better love each other. If you can't figure it out, understand it, or figure it out, then breaking a connection loses its meaning. If you understand and reason clearly, you will understand that conflicts between two people are inevitable. The key is to understand the knowledge of tolerating each other, reducing big things to small ones, and minimizing small ones.
Thirdly, disconnecting can help your girlfriend understand that you are not completely surrounding her
Breaking the connection can make your girlfriend understand that you have your principles and you are not completely following her around. There will also be many things in your life, but you hope there is a possibility of communication between you. You hope the other party can also be reasonable. You don't want to spend too much time arguing between you, you want to have good communication between you. Since we can't communicate, leave some time for both of us to think about it. Of course, you need to have confidence that the other person loves you. Otherwise, if the other party turns around and leaves, you may really lose them. You just hope your girlfriend can understand that with love, your life should be better than before, not worse.
Although there are so many beautiful women in the world, you just chose her. I loved her thousands of times, but only reluctantly did I break the connection, just to save her. So the most heartbreaking thing for men in the world is none other than this. I love her and play hide and seek. Loving someone is itself a very difficult thing, so people often say not to love someone easily. It is precisely because I love her that I try my best to get her love.
