Post Date December, 03 2023
We often hear that many people admire beautiful girls, and think that beautiful girls often enjoy many benefits, have good luck, and are more popular. They are also more successful in dating than ordinary people (there are many pursuers), and even are more popular in the workplace. So many girls want to become regular girls. They think that appearance is very important. It's really a loss without excellent appearance. In fact, in reality, this is more or less true. Appearance is really important. We are all affected by appearance. Our first impression also affects our judgment many times.
We won't say that appearance is not important, which is deceptive (unless we are blind), but is it really only appearance that matters? That's not necessarily true. From childhood to adulthood, I have seen many beautiful women. Some people say that beauty is a preferential ticket for life. People with good looks will get many tickets if they are lucky, whether in love, life or work. But is beauty a guarantee? Not at all.
I have seen many beautiful women all the time. At the age of sitting three times and looking four times, I have also observed many changes in people. I have always wanted to write this article to discuss whether people with beautiful looks are always lucky? This topic. I found that people with beautiful looks are lucky to get preferential tickets in life. Compared with other ordinary people, their good luck and attention are indeed too much. However, this preferential ticket is not permanent. That is to say, beauty has a deadline, so is good luck. But because it is so easy to get preferential tickets, they often do not find that they have inadvertently exceeded the expiration date.
It is true that God is unfair, and people are born unequal. So some people are born smart, rich, good-looking, and gifted. But I think people are born lucky until they are in their 20s. After 30, it depends on your nurture and efforts. Many people are born with good luck, but if they don't work hard the day after tomorrow, they will still fail. But some people know that they are born deficient, so they work hard the day after tomorrow, and the race between the tortoise and the hare will also win.
When it comes to beauty, some people say that beauty has no beautiful life (in Taiwanese). I didn't agree with it before. I thought it was discrimination against good-looking people, but later found that the desire to have a good life is not necessarily related to beauty.
Speaking of several great beauties I have seen in my life, I admired them when I was young and young, but after ten or twenty years, you will find that everyone has changed a lot. Maybe you have surpassed him now. How can the people you thought were beautiful become ugly? The people you thought were ugly ducklings before become beautiful, or the people whose homework was worse than you when you were young, Now I have achieved more than you. So I found that if you are born with beauty, but you don't work hard the day after tomorrow, and you just want to take a shortcut by beauty, you will usually go downhill faster than the average person.
A girl I knew when I was a student, she was a beautiful girl in the school flower class since childhood. There are boys who pursue her in all schools. So when we are still taking the bus to and from school, there are different boys who will pick her up every day. When she was in college, she also pursued social personages, so when we didn't know what a famous brand was, she had carried various famous brand bags to school every day. In fact, she is not only beautiful, but also admitted to a good university, which is enviable. However, she has been supported by her boyfriend of social personages (also known as Sugar Daddy) since her college years. After graduation, I met her several times, and was surprised that she has not been working, but she is a full-body brand. On the surface, her life was very comfortable, but she always felt that it was different from us. We didn't know what to talk about, so we didn't get in touch. After a few years, we accidentally met her. Unexpectedly, she didn't recognize her appearance. I heard that she had changed several boyfriends who could support her, and then broke up. Now that she was old, it was not easy to find her boyfriend to help her, so she wanted to work. But she has never had work experience, and she can't endure hardship and do low-paid work. It seems that she is spending time changing jobs.
The other is the beautiful girl B, who was a school flower when she was a child. She took an advertisement when she was young. Her model-like figure made many students envy her. After graduation, she heard that she had also been admitted to a good national university. After several years of wandering, she heard her news again. It was unexpectedly on the news that when she worked in the university, she was a junior with the boss of the company. The boss divorced her wife for her. Later, he married her, but within a few years, he had an affair again, which made news. Finally, she didn't give her alimony. Now she took her children with her, and it was not easy to find a job (even though she graduated from a national university, but had no work experience) because of the economic pressure. Later, she went to a sex place to make money. Her former classmates felt sorry for her when they heard about her current fate.
There are many other examples. They are some beautiful women that we would all envy before. They are born lucky. But I don't know why. These people who have life tickets are often mistaken for being too easy to get preferential treatment in the end. Many people who don't work hard and spend their money recklessly feel that it is too easy to get them. Compared with those who have no innate advantages, they should work hard, It's easy for them to feel that they should be lucky all the way.
Such a beautiful woman, I don't know why her beauty disappears very quickly, and often after ten or twenty years, you will suddenly feel that she is not so charming. You think that when everyone is working hard, she still stands still. If one day, beauty is no longer valuable and easy to be replaced. If you don't work hard and have no strength, what is left?
Of course, there are also some lucky children who not only have beauty, but also know how to work hard. So she knows how to cherish her preferential tickets more. She doesn't want to let herself only rely on beauty, try to prove herself, let herself succeed, and let her achievements surpass beauty.
You will find that some girls who didn't look very beautiful before, even ugly duckling, but when they worked tirelessly to make themselves better, slowly, she became more attractive, more confident and more beautiful. These lucky women are not afraid that they are born without preferential tickets. Instead, they go to create their own lives and earn tickets for success.
If you think that it is easy to get love or success as long as you have beauty, it is really only temporary. If you want to go a long way in life, you need more than luck.
In terms of love, you think beautiful people are easier to fall in love than you, and more people are chasing after you. But look around you, is it true that beautiful people are happier? Not necessarily.
You will think that people with excellent appearance are more popular in the workplace. However, are all the people who are really successful in the workplace excellent in appearance? Not necessarily.
Beautiful people are easy to get love, but it is not your beauty that runs a relationship and marriage (maybe Xiao San or Xiao Wang is uglier than you, just like the girl who is a junior was killed by Xiao Si who is uglier than her). The good-looking people are easy to get preferential tickets in life, which is easier and easier than others. However, they are not the passport to a happy life. If you only want to get the pass of a happy life by looking, you will often find that the reality is not as simple as they think.
Maybe you now envy others who are luckier than you and have better innate conditions than you, but you must not be discouraged, because the future still depends on your efforts the day after tomorrow. As long as you work hard, you can surpass them. If you happen to be the lucky one, don't just want to live your life by luck. If you don't cherish it, it will disappear faster than you think.
If you are lucky, you need to prove that you rely on more than luck.
You should strive to be a more beautiful person and a person who can stand the test. Even if you don't have natural luck, you can still rely on your own luck. Life is so long, people who know how to manage themselves, believe in their own value, and can create good luck even without good luck are smart people!
