What are the five major sexual scares of men? On the surface, men are not afraid of anything and will not panic in the face of anything. But men are also men, and sometimes they are vulnerable, especially when they are in sexual panic. Now let's understand the five major sexual panic of men!
Dr. Michael Schiller, a sex expert in Chicago, said: When there is something threatening their self-esteem, men will panic and fear, and sex is the basis for men to establish and maintain self-esteem. So in sex, if a man suddenly feels panic and at a loss, it must be that you have done something wrong.
So, what is the reason that usually touches the button of men's sexual panic, and how do you avoid this embarrassing moment?
I'm afraid you have no response
Sexual love is the most intimate exchange of feelings and body between lovers, and it is a dialogue between spirit and body at the same time. When making love, men always like to hear a few words of encouragement, or hear and see your clear response, voice or body movements. If you keep silent, he will feel that your silence is a kind of protest, dissatisfaction or carelessness, even if he sweats profusely and seems to put him aside.
Peter, a 30-year-old writer, said: "Sometimes my girlfriend and I have sex when they suddenly don't make a sound. I think I must have done a bad job.". So I began to think wildly and didn't know where I was wrong, so I was completely out of mood.
Some men say that when a woman's body no longer swings with their rhythm, they feel scared, just like swimming desperately in the unknown sea. Mike, a 27-year-old teacher, said, "Sometimes we choose a good posture and feel completely integrated with each other without reservation, but she suddenly stops moving. I feel very strange and just want to close the battle.".
Believe me, sometimes it is your neglect that makes your man lose interest in a moment. Dr. Schiller said: Men are always worried about women who can't satisfy themselves. If he can't understand your reaction in time, he will immediately doubt himself. The best way is to express your feelings truthfully.
If you like, just send out a happy murmur or gently pat his shoulder. If shouting is not your style, then swing your body with his rhythm, just like jumping a waltz with his pace. Your rotation will be his source of power.