Post Date April, 15 2023
Health not only includes physical health, but also psychological health. Anyone who responds positively to all events or activities that are beneficial to mental health is psychologically healthy. Male friends are sometimes very fragile. Let's take a look at the psychological fragility of men together:
Anatomy of the Unknown Fragile Psychology of Men
Past emotional experiences
In the men's circle, showing off how excellent and beautiful the women around him have been is also a special way for men to prove themselves; But in the face of women nowadays, they will never easily mention it, because even the unforgettable past is a matter of another world. Moreover, even women with high quality and self-restraint are inevitably not willing to break the sand pot and ask the truth about past events. If they encounter a 'jealous jar', wouldn't it be like they are asking for trouble?
Everyone will be curious about the past of the person they love the most around them, wanting to have everything they love is an instinct, an instinct of love. But once you know, besides the pain, what else will be left behind? Love requires sincerity, but it also requires secrets.
The so-called secret is to give love a space, let love breathe freely, and keep love fresh and mysterious. Everyone has a past, without which the present cannot be formed, and no one has the right to trample on the spiritual green space of others at will. Listen to a man's heart: If you love me, don't ask about my past.
The vanity of men
Men are all players, and if a man enjoys racing and is a center on the football field, his charm in front of women will suddenly increase. So men always have to have a few real skills, and at worst, they have to play one of them well, so as not to lose face in front of women. So there was a man who played tennis for his godgirlfriend and secretly practiced hard himself first. The house cannot be taken away, so there are men who spend all their money buying fragrant cars to deceive and deceive. It is impossible to borrow a car or rent it for a day to satisfy their vanity.
During his high school years, Maupassant's "The Necklace" was the wife of the vain civil servant who worked hard for ten years to create a necklace. At that time, I thought vanity was a woman's patent. After growing up, I realized that men actually admire vanity more than women. A woman's vanity is superficial, and a necklace can satisfy her vanity. A man's vanity is innate.
Men's Sexual Anxiety
One theory is that men have a one-time fantasy every six minutes, and they won't think about it until they are busy with it. After thinking about it every 6 minutes for 6 consecutive days, men start to need to do something about it, but few women know about men's anxiety about sex.
Many men have wondered in their hearts how big this thing can be once they have an erection, before they have had the opportunity to give their penis a try? They constantly comfort themselves by saying that size is not the key - 'it's not about its size, it's about how you use it'. But in fact, the issue of size has always plagued them.
In addition, men are afraid of women who are more skilled than them in bed, and this kind of competition will make them afraid. Of course, when men cannot, they are most afraid of women saying, "Are you sick?" As for prostatitis, impotence, premature ejaculation, hair loss, insomnia, kidney deficiency, palpitations, hemorrhoids, etc., which are all bad names that men dare not face.
In current life, it seems common for men, especially middle-aged men, to have kidney deficiency. Women's tears are gold, and when a woman complains that her partner is not good, people will be very sympathetic. In contrast, if a man cannot do it, it seems that he has committed an unforgivable crime, and what he receives is not sympathy, but disdain from the same kind and a monster in the eyes of the opposite sex.
Men's Child Psychology
The ideal image of a tough man in a woman's mind, such as Takakura, has taught men not to shed tears lightly. Therefore, men have developed a habit of denying their emotions since childhood - knocking out their teeth and swallowing them into their stomachs, revealing too much childlike affection is a sign of weakness. If Japanese people experience business failures or the dissolution of the Australian cabinet and cry, it must be the headline news that immediately appears in the newspaper. Do you know? Therefore, more men suffer from depression than women, and the suicide rate is even higher than women.
Every man has a Oedipus complex more or less, especially those men who lacked maternal love when they were young. They often nestle in the arms of their beloved women in the dead of night. Of course, this complex will not spread everywhere. The woman in front of him must be the woman he loves and trusts most, because he will feel safe only in front of his beloved woman.
Men also act coquettishly, is it fresh? In fact, this is already a common "drama" in life, but men are unwilling to disclose it to the public for the sake of their "strong" face. But since women can be strong, why can't men be weak? This society is becoming increasingly rich and inclusive, why should we prioritize one over the other? How tiring it is to keep a man tense and act as the embodiment of strength. Even if they can carry it on their own, don't you feel heartbroken?
The above introduction is about the most fragile mentality of men. In fact, men also have a fragile side that requires women to take care of with tenderness and delicacy.
