Post Date December, 03 2023
A healthy sexual psychology is essential for a harmonious married life. Love is an artistic creation that requires continuous dedication. In fact, it is the withering of the tree of love, not who is right or wrong, that has become a common reason for couples to break up.
Most Chinese people do not believe that love is an artistic creation. Men usually think that as long as their wife is still having sex with them, everything is okay. Modern men often view sex as a leisure activity, a physical exercise that allows them to relax, and a psychological first aid when they are exhausted. But modern women are tired of the routine sex life that serves men. Her main demands for her husband seem not to be in terms of sex, but rather for him to be gentle and considerate, followed by success, earning more money, propping up the facade of the family, and giving her children a proud father, and so on. After tiring herself from work and household chores for a whole day, she just wants to take the time to get a good sleep. Regular sex is an additional burden on her. As a result, women's frigidity has almost become a common disease, which makes men feel tormented, helpless, helpless, and shameless.
The reactions of men and women to the above situations vary. For a man with meaning, this is just a temporary difficulty. On the one hand, the coldness of the marital relationship may also make him dissatisfied, but on the other hand, he will try his best to make changes. For example, planning a couple to go on vacation or reducing their workload to have the energy and time to spend with their family. A wise man may even consider "changing his way of life" to avoid letting career success ruin family happiness.
However, many men lack substance, confidence, and a sense of security. For them, having less sex is like encountering a disaster in life, constantly panicking. They greatly exaggerated the significance of sexual life. Perhaps some men have been emotionally suppressed since childhood, leading to physical and mental rigidity. Only sexual activity can generate some slight vitality for them. So, sex became the only key that could open the door to his soul, and if this key was lost, his feelings could be imagined.
And if this kind of man can make more friends among his peers, that is, men, it may help him get through the 'dark night' of life as soon as possible. The advice, comfort, education, and guidance that men give men are often more relevant than what women give men. Of course, men also need to be cautious when choosing male friends. They should avoid men who are always in the same boat and have a negative impact on you, as well as extremists who hate women.
A man who walks through the long 'dark night' is no longer a 'big boy', will no longer seize his wife like an Oedipus, nor will he be violent. He will be free and alone, appropriately close to his wife, care for children, and know how to treat his wife equally. Such a man, who can hold and put down, can stretch and bend, is truly full of the charm of a man.
