How to know who a man really is is actually very simple. The most important personal items for a man, such as mobile phones, diaries, and so on, can be revealed in different styles and colors, as well as their personality and thoughts.
Count a man's nine personal items and analyze his personality
1. Use a variety of cosmetics
In this world, the love of beauty is not the exclusive right of women, and men also have a fashionable vision and pursuit. They will buy different clothes to match according to the occasion they want to go, decide to have their hair done, and go to the cosmetics store to buy various cosmetics. As a result, they also stand in front of the mirror for a long time before going out like girls. They can attract many girls' eyes by manipulating their hair, arranging their clothes, making up, and spraying perfume. If the company stipulates to wear a suit and tie when going to work, it is also rare to see them wearing the same shirt two days, because men who love beauty pay attention to the details of life and their own taste, and despite their pursuit of fashion, they do not blindly spend money.
2. Mobile phone
As an indispensable communication tool nowadays, mobile phones are convenient and easiest to hide one's secrets. Otherwise, why would so many people lock their phones? Is to prevent their privacy from being disclosed. If you find something unusual with your boyfriend, you can also obtain some information by observing your phone, such as whether there is any abnormal information or abnormal call records. Of course, if you often do this, your boyfriend will definitely feel disgusted and mistrust him, so don't do it in front of him.
Keeping a diary is the best way to record past events. Looking back over time, you will find that you have experienced so many things. You have changed from a naive child to an adult and then to a husband and father. Unlike women, men can confide in each other when they meet a friend who has a good conversation. They often like to invite a few friends out to have a meal, and only say one or two words when they are drunk to the gut. Therefore, to understand a man, you can start with his diary, which is quietly hidden in a drawer or every corner of the room. It may be wise to spend more time to find the treasure you want. If you accidentally discover his hidden secret, don't blame him for concealing it from you. White lies just want to protect your vulnerable soul.
4. Do you often chat with QQ
Sometimes I spend more time with QQ than my lover, so I need to use QQ at work. I still use QQ when I have something to do after work, whether it's chatting or doing other things. Therefore, we spend a large part of our time in QQ, and what happens in chat is unpredictable. Both men and women can find an online lover in chat. If a man can resist temptation, such a man is just a pastime. If a man cannot resist temptation, he slowly pecks at the marriage like an ant insect. Therefore, women can use a man's QQ from time to time to see if there are any special people who are always chatting with themselves, or to observe if a man has any special behavior when chatting, and if you turn off the display as soon as you enter, etc. If you find something abnormal, you should make every effort to protect your marriage.
5. Items such as paper hearts
Around 2004 and 2005, folding heart shaped items to give to one's boyfriend or girlfriend as keepsakes was particularly popular. The person who received the gift, regardless of whether it was a romantic relationship or not, would keep it well in their wallet or in a book, and treasure it well. Until now, some couples still do this. They feel that whether they were naive or not, it was ultimately a chapter of youth. Therefore, when you find that such worthless things have been quietly in his wallet, and he cherishes them very much, don't complain that he is so obsessed with the past that he ignores your feelings. It's just that everyone needs to keep some memories of the past and warm the way he fought alone. And you should feel lucky, because he is at least a person who values affection and righteousness. Even if your path in the future is not so certain, you can imagine that one day in the future when he thinks of you, you will also feel warm.
6. Common briefcase for work
To be a good wife and girlfriend, you should learn how to care about the work of your husband or boyfriend. Sometimes, in order not to worry about their women, men won't say a word no matter how much they have been wronged at work, just want you to be happy every day. Therefore, understanding a man's work and caring about the pressure he bears outside can be done by flipping through his briefcase, which will enable him to do what he is busy doing for his family every day tomorrow. Don't leave his briefcase at his desk as soon as he comes back to pick it up. In this way, not only can you be a good wife with good understanding, but also help manage each other's feelings.
7. Able to use condoms
If he secretly buys a condom and hides it when he hasn't mentioned it to you, and when you accidentally discover it, don't rush to pin some bad thoughts on him, such as whether he often sleeps with other women. The more you think about these, the more deeply rooted some thoughts become, and speculation fills the emotional world of both people. It's better to calmly think about why based on his daily behavior habits. Or you can communicate well with him, choose to believe his reasons, and give yourself some time to judge based on future observations. Don't rush to conclusions. Generally, couples use condoms for safety when having sex. If they don't want a baby yet, this preparation is just right.
8. Game consoles that have been played before
Playing games, listening to music, watching anime, watching ball games, and so on are all ways men use to relieve work pressure. Therefore, when you discover that your husband still hides the video game he played as a child, don't just think of him as a child addicted to games. In fact, it used to be really a love game, but now it should be a wonderful memory, but it's just like some people still love books and haven't sold a single textbook from childhood to college. With the current fast pace of life, men who hide their childhood game consoles can also become a way to relieve work pressure, relive the fun of childhood, and take you to enjoy the games he once won as a hero. Wouldn't you be happy watching such a happy man?
9. Digital cameras with a somewhat high probability of taking photos of themselves
Some men love to play with digital cameras, and they bring them with them wherever they go, making constant clicking noises. In fact, in the end, they find that they are basically photos of themselves inside. If a woman looks at them, she will definitely feel that this is a relatively smelly and beautiful man, who doesn't put himself first at all, and will be angry for a long time. In fact, there is nothing wrong with narcissistic men, as long as they are not narcissistic enough to upset others' appetites, there is no problem, because they have a set of self-affirmation methods and statements that make them confident but not conspicuous, and they are satisfied with their appearance and figure without excessive boasting. They love beauty, love themselves, and are not influenced by others, and can entertain themselves and infect others.