Post Date December, 03 2023
I'm the only daughter in my family. Before I got married, my family loved me very much. I'm the little princess in my family. However, my personality has not become very cheerful and lively. On the contrary, I am a very introverted person and suspicious.
After getting married, I became more suspicious of my husband. If he came home late or answered the phone behind my back, I would check his phone record and then come back to analyze it. If the phone call lasted more than three minutes, I would call him to ask his identity. If the other party and my suspicion match, I will have a big fight with my husband. My husband always said that I was suspicious, so I would divorce if I continued. But I love my husband very much, so I don't want to lose him. What should I do?
Ms. Li:
People who are used to suspicion generally lack a sense of security in their hearts. Because they care, they are more afraid of losing, and they are always worried about the betrayal and abandonment in imagination. Such emotional expression may make the other party feel some pressure; At the same time, it is also the result of interaction between husband and wife.
Suspicion and suspicion are the result of interaction between husband and wife, and also a symbiotic state. As a wife, you are enjoying this state alone. As a husband, he has been unable to make his wife feel safe and trusted; As a wife, you will always be suspicious. Be more considerate of your husband in daily life. It is suggested that the husband should care more emotionally and in life, and move your wife with heart; At the same time, you should have confidence and don't be paranoid. Marriage is not only about love, but also about the feelings of real life. Giving yourself and your partner more space and giving yourself more relaxation and confidence is the secret of keeping marriage fresh.
