After two years of love, I finally found it inappropriate. What should I say if I want to break up

First of all, you need to tell the other person what you really think honestly. Where do you think it is inappropriate and why. If you can't leave tenderness, at least show sincerity. The end of a relationship is normal. It is rare to let it end with dignity, so it is precious. Please try not to use the method of denying the value of the other party to say good-bye. It takes courage, but it is kind-hearted. It is no problem to give a heavy fist to the villain, but please try to be soft to the lover, even the lover in the past. It should be considered as a funeral for the good old time. It is polite to stand aside and look at the past. It is irrelevant after leaving this door.

Secondly, we should oppose all kinds of break-up methods that make us very miserable or degrade the other party. Although it is difficult to speak, you should seriously and face to face tell the other party: I don't love you anymore, and I can't continue to be with you. This is my fault. You have no fault, but we really can't continue, forget me. So, no matter what the reason is, it's hard to say, it's wonderful or wonderful. Frankly speaking, the most important thing is to find the right time. This is the last love for each other and the last treasure for this relationship. If you pick on the cold war mutation, move out of the elders, material, three views, and other convenient excuses, they are all excuses, and the other party will only doubt themselves and then self-pity. So to be frank, your attitude is serious and sincere. The other party will not beg to say "I am willing to change for you". Many times, change will not bring perfection, but will only bring more grievances and dissatisfaction, and will not bring comfort, but will only bring discomfort and embarrassment. The more decisive the damage is, the smaller the damage is. The damage is inevitable and can only be minimized.

Then, don't deny the happiness and sweetness of being with each other. I love you when I am together, I am really happy when I hold hands with you, and I am really comfortable when I spend time with you. All this is true, even if I want to leave you now. We are all adults, and we all have psychological construction for the result that we may not be together in the future. I don't want much, even if it doesn't work out in the end, at least when we are together, you are sincere to me.

Thirdly, it is absolutely necessary to explain the intention of breaking up. It is a matter of two people to fall in love, but it is only a matter of one person to break up. Tell the other party that I will leave you. Even if it was beautiful and true before, it was just the past. We must never give up. At least don't let the other party feel your reluctance. Now that you have decided, please be happy. Don't break up, don't break up, don't last a moment to remember, and don't let yourself and your predecessor be disconnected. If there is something related to money during the love period, resolve it before breaking up, and don't contact again because of the money repayment after equal division.

Finally, when breaking up, the other party will inevitably ask for reasons for breaking up. Don't say a reason that makes the other party feel there is room for redemption. For example, my mother doesn't like you. The other party may think that although your mother doesn't like me, you still have feelings for me. This relationship has not reached the end and can still be retrieved. Don't let the other party feel that there is room for redemption. Don't be too cruel. You can say that you are in love with others, but don't say that you have had a relationship. It can also be said that we have been in love with others for a long time, but don't say that we have been flirting with others for a year.