After the private affair was discovered, the junior began to show his love in a high profile

Q:

There are always derailments that are exposed, but apart from the parties, the spectators will disappear after a while. What if they lose their reputation? As long as they do not touch the law, capable people can always escape the spotlight and make a comeback.

How many people still care about the affair of the derailment of the associate professor of Fudan History Department, which has been in the uproar for some time? Everyone yelled and played the third to clear the microblog. Who cares about the life of the original wife when they are abroad?

It's not my own experience, it's really a joke. Only those who are in it will suffer and feel helpless.

My husband, also a scholar, used to be a wooden man who only knew academic knowledge and didn't know how to talk about love. From the time we met to the time we got married, I was the leading person from the beginning to the end. It was I who opened his EQ.

My biggest failure is that I failed to teach him. If you don't love me, please take the initiative to tell me, instead of going out on a date in the name of being on duty for this professor and that professor, doing experiments, writing papers. I think people with good souls have no courage to take the initiative to tell me that they are in love with others. My support for his career has become a sign that I don't care about men in the eyes of outsiders.

After nine years of marriage, he had no children. At the beginning, he said that his career was on the rise, and the children would be distracted and have no time to take care of it. So we postponed the plan of having children. In the past two or three years, he began to have plans to have children, and went to the hospital for examination. I am thirty-five years old, and I have some physical conditions. If I want to have children, I am not optimistic. This is something I didn't expect.

Maybe this is the fuse, but I always think about how to take good care of my body. I didn't expect that he would find another woman, let alone that his relationship with other women developed rapidly. Even to the point where it is hard to part. Xiaosan even shows his love in a high profile. The Xiaosan's microblog nickname I found in his historical browsing record is full of sour lyrical sentences, exclaiming "love but can't be together all the time" and so on. There are also restaurant dating photos without taking a face. The man's sweater on the opposite side was bought by me for my husband, and the watch was given to him by my father last year's birthday. I can almost conclude that Xiaosan was intentional and left these clues, The purpose is to completely destroy my feelings with him. I am distressed that my husband interacted with and often commented on the trumpet used by the show.

I noticed that the time of the first tweet of this nickname was exactly the time when I found out the fact of his cheating from his mobile phone WeChat. We had a very heated argument. Maybe he had communicated with the junior about it.

I'm really tired of quarreling and want to let go. I don't want to see the person I love become hateful. But when it comes to divorce, he is more angry than I am. He won't divorce, but he won't give up. What does he want from me?

A:

The wife's helplessness is that her husband betrayed her, but still occupied the nest of the family, and did not return or admit her mistake. A lot of infidelities, under the ambiguous attitude of the man, have evolved into a seesaw battle, dragging on day by day, and the wife's mood is on the verge of collapse, while the man's underground relationship continues.

Don't take it for granted that the reason for the derailment is simply attributed to the failure of your plan to have a baby. In a previous case, the wife found out that her husband was unfaithful and quickly conceived a child. She thought that the man would change his mind if he had a child, but the man was furious and went through the lactation period and asked for a divorce. The situation can only be reversed if the approach is prudent and appropriate, and the situation will continue to deteriorate due to wrong cognition.

Don't be disturbed by the mistress. Many mistresses show their true match, which just shows that they lack confidence and confidence in the future.