A survey report shows that 80% of single men and women aged 25-40 are "unhappy". Experts remind that behind the unhappiness of "leftover men and women" lies negative emotions such as irritability, anxiety, and even depression. However, February 14th, which has just passed, has become a high incidence of anxiety among singles.
In recent years, there have been more and more leftover men and women, and the Spring Festival, which should have been a happy reunion, has gradually become a burden for these single people. Especially on the first day of the first lunar month and the "Double Day" of "Valentine's Day" this year, it has made it difficult for single men and women to be happy.
On the other hand, most elderly singles have had imperfect romantic experiences. Wang Zhiguo analyzed that these love experiences leave behind a feeling of emotional frustration in a broken love relationship, which lurks in people's hearts. Once stimulated, depression will erupt. Especially during the Chinese New Year, parents' urge to "quickly find another girlfriend (boyfriend)" can make them afraid to go home.
Single individuals on the internet are somewhat helpless in their jokes, with unmarried individuals aged 27 to 28 referred to as "leftover fighters"; Those aged 29 to 30 are called "inevitably leftover customers"; Those aged 31 to 35 are called "Duzhan Left Buddha"; Those over the age of 35 are revered as "Qi Tian Da Lu".
As they age, their chances of falling in love will decrease. Survey data shows that from the age of 30 for women and 34 for men, the chances of marriage plummet.
At the same time, the Spring Festival is a day for family reunion, and pressure from family and public opinion has exacerbated the "unhappiness" emotions of older single individuals. Anxiety has become a group mentality.
Fan Aitian, Secretary General of the China Marriage and Family Research Association of the All China Women's Federation, pointed out that the main problem many people face in choosing a spouse is the ambiguity and impatience of their marriage and love views. It is urgent to solve the group anxiety disorder of "leftover men and women", help them establish a positive, sunny, and confident attitude towards choosing a spouse, and enhance their affinity and attraction to the opposite sex.
In addition, learning to self relieve stress and relieve anxiety by diverting attention is also a compulsory course for them. Spring has arrived, actively entering nature, exercising more, and being exposed to the sun can also brighten their mood.