Post Date April, 15 2023
My wife and I met at a nightclub. At that time, she was smoking, drinking alcohol, and occasionally wriggling on the dance floor. I like spicy women, and she made me fall in love with her at first sight. After chasing her for more than half a year, she still treats me like a friend or younger brother.
During this period, she had several short and straightforward relationships with many so-called gangsters, until one day, she told me that she was tired of playing and wanted to get married. She asked me if I had the urge to marry her, and we quickly got married.
I am a relatively gentle and respectable man with a decent job. Perhaps when I was a child, I was disciplined too strictly by my parents, which led to a rebellious attitude and made me want to act wild after work. I also have a fondness for nightclubs and other occasions. However, I have tried to indulge and be crazy, but I always feel that I am swaying unnaturally, crazy and too green. In the end, I gave up my madness and became particularly obsessed with women who can let go.
Many people say that marriage should be a perfect match. Therefore, my marriage with my wife has made many people think that I am a wonderful person because my family and colleagues are not used to her. However, in my eyes, my wife is a treasure. I regard her as a hero, a goddess, worshipped, and tolerant.
In fact, my wife is also a person with strong work ability, and her earning ability is no worse than mine. Therefore, my family and friends no longer complain about my wife. Even many children of relatives and friends have found good jobs under the recommendation of their wives.
In addition to being insulated from tobacco and alcohol during pregnancy, the wife returned to her usual state after the end of lactation.
During the process of marriage, there was an incident where my wife was pursued by a little fart child, and then she invited the man to her house and ordered me to beat him hard.
I thought my wife, as a female Xia, wouldn't cheat, but in the end, she still let me down.
A few days ago, she said to me in pain, "Baby, I've fallen in love with someone else, the kind I love very much. I've thought about getting divorced from you and being with that man, but I can't bear to part with it. However, it seems like I can't stay away from that man for my family. What do you think I should do?" While explaining this fact to me, my wife even slapped herself in the face.
Based on my understanding of my wife, she has indeed devoted her true love to that man, otherwise, how could the wife be so irrational. My wife even begged me to coexist with the three of them, but I didn't agree and couldn't agree.
My wife is the apple of my eye and the love of my life. How can I help her out of the quagmire of extramarital affairs? I don't want to lose her.
Reply:
There are so many people in the world who can only make themselves obsessed. Therefore, in the love world, there is no need to follow the rules, the key is to like it.
Although you appreciate your wife's model, you also need to allow civilization and prejudice to coexist. At least, in the eyes of many people, women who smoke and drink are bad women. In fact, some women just wrap their glass heart with unrestrained body language.
Your wife ultimately chose to marry you because at the critical moment of marriage, she would rather choose someone who loves her than marry someone she loves. Willing to have a clear personality with her has resulted in her inner world being only absolutely black and white, with some gray areas missing. Even after her infidelity, she will confess to you. Of course, she also confesses that her inner world is' reluctant to part with you, unable to give up on that man's desires'.
What is Chinese style love? That is, the existence of monogamy.
In the current situation, the man has accepted your wife, but he may only consider her as a lover, playmate, or a tool for venting his desires.
The truth often requires time to prove.
If you love deeply, you can only persist stubbornly, because you have no ability to save your rebellious wife. Only when she truly saw the man's hypocrisy would she take the initiative to turn back.
All you can do is to be good to your wife as always.
One person, one life. Since you choose to be obsessed with a shrewd woman, you have to endure the possibility of her cheating.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
