After marrying the wrong man, I was humiliated and tortured by him and others around me, and my spirit collapsed

"I married someone I shouldn't have married, met someone I shouldn't have met, and meeting them changed my life. Since then, I have lived a sad life. They have insulted my personality, ruined my life, and destroyed my career. The mental torment has brought me to a point of collapse, and the mental suffering I have had for the past year has been endless.". They spread the word about what ailment I have, saying that I am insane, that I have a problem with my brain, and that's why they stink at me. So wherever I go, anyone who meets me will spit at me, and they also say that I am insane, and that's why they stink at me.

"Those stinky men have been shitting and urinating in front of me, constantly stabbing me with this thorn. They have been tormenting me mentally for eight to nine years, and they are still continuing. They have caused a great psychological shadow on me. Therefore, whenever I see and hear them, I feel very sad and heartache, so I control my tears, and I hate them to death.".

Nowadays, everyone treats me as a neurotic, and whoever I approach will draw a little distance from me. I remember once when someone spoke to me in the factory, a person went to ask the person who spoke to me not to talk to me. "Women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. It is my man who listened to others that led to me today. I wasted my most important age in XX in vain. I regret marrying him and coming to XX.". "The biggest pain that XX has inflicted on me is that they have made my inner privacy public. With their sting in XX, I will never be able to find a job.".

Every time I find it, I am stabbed away by this thorn. No matter where I go, they will never let me go. At first, I said that I was not as good as a pig or a dog. I was impolite, and people made fun of me everywhere, calling me a pig's head, and asking those smelly men to humiliate me in front of me. Every year and every month, I was verbally attacked, insulted, and abused. Speaking of this thorn, I couldn't finish it for a year. My Lang listened to others and gave me away as a white mouse. What should I do?

reply:

I'm not sure how you offended your husband, causing him and others around you to torture and insult you like this. Is your pain really just caused by others? Are you just getting married to the wrong guy? Are you really all right with yourself? To do this, you need to re recognize yourself. When others disrespect you and insult you, do you only see their human ugliness, or do you spy on their extreme weakness?

If the person you marry cannot protect you, love you, or even unite with others around you to humiliate you, then why don't you loudly say no to them, strive to maintain your dignity, or seek help from your loved ones, or seek legal protection, all of which are feasible. Why just complain in hysteria, can complaining change your destiny?

Since you regret going to a sad place and facing those who hurt you, you can choose to leave, leave these places where you feel heartache, and then rediscover your own world, rebuild your life, and rearrange your interpersonal network. Everything can be restarted, so why not do it? I hope you can get out of the haze of yourself as soon as possible, be happy as soon as possible, and change your life situation. You can't rely on others, you can only rely on yourself.