After marriage, he handed over the financial power to me, and there was a conspiracy behind it. I was so angry that I wanted a divorce

My husband and I got to know each other through acquaintances' introductions, and we got married after a year of dating. After marriage, we lived separately from his parents and lived a world of two that belonged to both of us. The house was demolished by his parents at the right time, so we didn't have the pressure of a mortgage and lived a comfortable life. In the first month after marriage, my husband handed me his salary card and asked me to swipe and spend it casually, which made me feel happy.

However, his subsequent actions left me speechless. Don't look at him being at home all day, careless and indifferent. He feels extremely unhappy when others take advantage of him, and he feels embarrassed when he refuses others. Therefore, he has always let me play the role of villain. His sister's family wants to buy a house, but his brother-in-law's money is not enough, and most of it is used for investment and business. Unfortunately, at this moment, their favorite house was taken away and refunded, so they wanted to buy it quickly. However, they had to open their mouths and let us borrow it.

With my temper, my brother-in-law and sister are usually so close to my husband. It's appropriate to lend them money. I thought my thoughts were the same as my husband's. But the opposite is true. My husband gave me a political lesson: the current society is all about money. 'The one who borrows money is the master, and the one who repays money is the grandson.' Don't fall out with your sister or brother-in-law about money at that time. Don't blame me for not reminding you in the future. Listening to his words also made some sense. I casually found a reason and sent them away. My husband happily held my face and praised my intelligence.

Now, as a result, I go to his sister's house to play. Her attitude towards me is neither warm nor cold, and she thinks that his younger brother's refusal to borrow money was caused by me. It makes me feel uncomfortable and unable to explain, so I have to admit my misfortune. Later, when my mother-in-law learned about the situation, she took out her pension and gave it to my sister. She said that I had asked her to transfer the money to her sister. Her mother-in-law did this to alleviate the unhappiness between us, but only I knew the truth, and my heart became even more uncomfortable.

After that, I particularly hated my husband. My husband doesn't like others staying at our house. One of his college buddies, who was traveling here, wants to stay at our house for a few days, which can save on hotel expenses and cultivate relationships with us. It can be said that he kills two birds with one stone. Our family has three bedrooms, and living alone with him is just a small idea. But my husband laughed and said, 'As long as I agree, there's no problem.'. After closing the door and asking me to answer him with 'inconvenient', his classmate looked embarrassed and hastily finished his meal before saying goodbye to us.

These small things may seem insignificant, but they can make some people remember and hate you. People who have dealt with me and have been rejected by me have no good impression of me, and even compare me to a malicious woman without any self-restraint. That time, I got angry with him, and I said if this continues, I will go crazy. My husband advised me that as long as I know how to politely refuse, we can keep our small home clean.

Why is he so narrow-minded? Other people's requests are not always there, and he is so unwilling to meet them often? How can this narrow-minded man live his future? As long as I don't follow his ideas, his attitude towards me will plummet, and conversely, he will show me great respect. What kind of person is such a man? Sometimes, I really want to leave and leave him.

Reply from Weiqing Consultant:

Hello, on the surface, he entrusted everything in his family to you. However, behind the scenes, they manipulate you to do things that you are not willing to do. The good guys are all taken over by them, and the remaining bad guys are assigned to you. To put it bluntly, this behavior is selfish, hypocritical, and with such a heavy heart, it is too terrifying. He can do such inhumane things to his sister and good buddies. If one day you infringe on his interests, I can't imagine how he would treat you.

I suggest communicating well with my husband. A man should not have such a broad mindedness, as narrow-minded behavior is the fault of small people. If he sincerely treats you well, he should not let you become the focus of discussion after others' leisure time. Good luck.