After giving birth to the baby, my husband lost interest in me and knew the truth of his cheating. I was furious

I work in a company as a financial officer and my husband as a marketing director. We are in free love, and our relationship has always been very harmonious. After three years of marriage, we had the crystallization of love. I'm pregnant. I can't express my excitement in words. My husband is happy to lie on my stomach and listen to the news. He is happy like a child.

The child grows up in my belly day by day, my body is getting more and more heavy, and my mood is getting more and more unstable. I lose my patience with my husband. It's okay to be alone, but I feel very upset when there is more. However, in order not to affect my mood and let me have a baby, my husband moved to the next room. At night, he could not help being lonely, and would also lie secretly beside me, feeling my temperature and dispelling his desire.

I chatted with my good sister, and she mentioned how my husband got through the long night with my stomach full. I was very proud at that time. I said that my husband had a strong willpower and could be satisfied by hitting me. My girlfriend shriveled her lips and reminded me to say, "Be careful of your husband's cheating...". I heard her careless remark very disturbing.

I looked up a lot of examples of husband cheating during pregnancy on the Internet. To be honest, I'm afraid. Many netizens have a bad idea, saying that they can buy an inflatable wawa for their husband to solve his physiological problems.

I ordered online with great interest. After receiving the order, I put it directly on my husband's bed. He came back to bed after taking a bath and was scared to squat on the ground. I still felt funny at that time, and his face turned red. I said, I don't mind you using this special way to solve your physiological needs. He was very angry and left his things aside, feeling that I was insulting his personality.

I don't care. In short, I have conveyed my implication to him. He is so smart that I must have guessed that I was worried about his cheating, so I bought such a gift for him. However, it is this gift that I don't care about that has become an obstacle between our husband and wife.

After the baby was born, he didn't have that sense of expectation for me. Instead, he slept with the silicone woman who made him blush. I tried to approach him several times, but he refused. He also comforted me that let me take a good rest and not worry about his cheating. At first, I could still accept his explanation, but the child is half a year old, and he is still not warm to me.

I was furious, holding scissors to destroy this thing, and he was angry with me, saying what I gave him in the first place, and now I want to destroy his beloved thing by myself. Did you take him seriously!!! I suddenly realized that there was something wrong with our marriage. He was addicted to this lifeless thing. It was terrible. Teacher, how can I let him come out and resume his normal life? Please help me.

Reply from the consultant:

In life, once you become dependent on something, it is difficult to quit. This situation is really bad for your marriage, and it is also a mental torture for you. He is so interested in a toy and indifferent to you. It is really chilling.

Personally, I think we should let him get rid of this thing psychologically, communicate with him more, and tell him how harmful it is to marriage. If we can't stop it, marriage is likely to collapse because of her existence. Think about it. As a wife, he will naturally change his mind if he satisfies his husband. wish you success.