Post Date December, 03 2023
With the emergence of marriage, infidelity incidents are also increasing, and divorce is no longer a serious keyword in the hearts of many couples. There is no strange situation where men cheat, and women also cheat. In marital life, when faced with his wife's infidelity, there are only two obvious reactions from the husband: one is to immediately divorce, and the other is to choose to forgive. So, how do I view my wife's infidelity and my resolute decision to divorce? We can consider the following factors:
My wife's infidelity is very bad
If the cheating wife seriously betrays her husband physically and mentally, not only does she not reflect on herself, but she is also calm and indifferent to family affairs, and has a painless attitude towards her husband. This behavior is generally unacceptable to her husband. Getting along with others is a process of heart to heart communication, and no one can arrogantly and recklessly harm others, especially between couples. It is more important to live in harmony and manage marriage and family with dedication. Perhaps the wife gradually felt uncomfortable in her relationship with her husband, wanting to escape but lacking the courage to cut through the chaos quickly, and eventually embarked on the path of cheating. Her heart went further and further, reaching an irreversible point. My husband is a person, not a god. He will not tolerate his wife's deceiving and irresponsible behavior.
Husband's temperament and personality
Generally speaking, a husband is a person with an impatient personality, strict self-discipline in all things, and a particular emphasis on face and etiquette. To a large extent, he will not forgive his wife's cheating behavior. He can never tolerate the betrayal of his lover towards himself and his family, believing that it is disrespect for him and an insult to their relationship. Therefore, if his wife easily cheats, all he can do is to dodge, without thinking too much. Such a woman makes him deeply disgusted, so it's better to break up gracefully and find a better quality woman to accompany him for life. If the husband is a man with a strong desire for control and a tendency towards mental cleanliness, he will not hesitate to choose divorce. In the face of his wife's infidelity and betrayal, his soul has suffered a heavy blow. He hopes that his marriage life and marital relationship are pure and flawless, and his eyes cannot tolerate any dirt or sand. A husband who attaches great importance to love and marriage also has high requirements for the purity of marriage. Once he discovers the other party's extramarital affair, he can do nothing, divorce immediately, leave the house clean, and walk far away alone, out of sight and out of mind.
Wife's own consciousness
In fact, infidelity goes through a process from shallow to deep, initially in an unconscious stage. Under the control of the id, a person can easily follow the principle of happiness and only want to enjoy themselves to the fullest. However, at the psychological level, there is also a superego playing a moral supervision role, which will to some extent hinder the excessive expansion of the id. However, if the parties involved indulge in unrestrained emotions, they will fall into a quagmire of consciousness and be unable to extricate themselves from infidelity. Everyone has flashbacks of infidelity, whether the difference is on a conscious or unconscious level.
We say that a comfortable and comfortable marriage life can breed a sense of happiness. People always think that the longer a marriage lasts, the better it can maintain a happy marriage. In fact, a long and happy marriage is just a yearning and longing. It is an important factor that affects the quality of marriage, but it is not the only sign. If the wife's infidelity leads to the husband's physical and mental exhaustion, which greatly affects both work and life, then it's better to get together and relax. In fact, we are also aware that the problems that arise in marriage do not lie in whether we immediately go out, but in whether we have the ability and determination to improve and solve the problems. Facing the problems directly is the key.
