The essence of sexual love has been unequal from ancient times to the present. When a man meets a beautiful woman, he can do anything, otherwise there would be no story of "not loving the river and the mountains and loving the beautiful woman". Of course, this does not include playboys who have never understood what love is - they do not consider the end point, but rather consider conquering the next mountain peak. Fortunately, most men just hope for a true love, which is enough because it is already difficult. Finding a wife and a woman is a necessary proposition in a serious man's life.
A few days ago, I met an old cultural figure who was once an idol in the publishing industry in Hong Kong. Even though he is nearly half a century old, he still has long hair and looks that he used to. I think such a man must have read everything about men and women, so I asked him about his views on women using my identity as a descendant.
In fact, men all like beautiful women. Although kindness and kindness are the most important, men are definitely animals that control the brain visually. Even when they reach the age of "not exceeding the norm", they cannot ignore the temptation of the three sides, he continued, "But when it comes to the ultimate woman's dream, I think it is related to age
Indeed, we all know that first love is incredibly beautiful, but it is almost impossible to achieve success. The reason for this can be attributed to the boy at that time not knowing what kind of woman he wanted - even the standards of beauty and ugliness were vague. There is an example as evidence: a few days ago at a classmate gathering, I found that the "class flower" we were after had no beauty at all, to the point of being married with the ugliest girl in the class. It shows our aesthetic ignorance back then.
When a man finally knows how to distinguish beauty, but begins to make mistakes in his philosophy of life. Super male chauvinists believe that everything is okay as long as they like it, without considering their family environment or educational background. Therefore, many love tragedies are born when a couple enters society. Male chauvinism cannot bear the burden of life, only when it comes to sad breakups. Personally, I believe that men often suffer more harm in such situations - it's really tragic to have to bear the burden for many years and start over again.
I remember a boss saying to me, "A man at twenty has nothing, but a girl at twenty has everything; a man at forty has everything, but a woman at forty has nothing." So he advised me to focus on striving for everything at forty instead of playing with relationships at twenty. So, some good people have summarized the following definition. According to the current development status of our society, a man - who excludes the wealthy prince, the playboy who sees love as a game, and various other men who do not use marriage as the end point of love - is the most suitable partner for love:
A woman who looks a bit better than herself - this can satisfy a man's vanity, but not too much, otherwise the woman will feel that she has lost her marriage and will bully you for a lifetime;
Women who rely on themselves - financially independent women generally have a good mindset and the ability to think rationally;
Women with consistent aesthetics - If you enjoy watching science fiction movies, don't find a woman who enjoys watching literary films; If you like Faye Wong, don't find a girl who likes Li Yapeng, even though Wang and Li are already married.
The above three suggestions are for men in their thirties - this is the best time for men to talk about marriage. They are looking for women around the age of 25, because according to scientific analysis, the difference between men and women is 3 to 5 years old, which can make the aging process of men and women's faces more consistent. This way, men will not age slower than women, and the two can enjoy the romance of "growing old together" with peace of mind.
However, even with this plan, the ultimate dream of a man about women is still full of danger. The Hong Kong cultural elder said, "Just like me, today we can only use one principle to find the right woman, which is' whoever likes me, I like who '