After getting married for a long time, life inevitably becomes dull and boring. Marital relationships can even be threatened, according to a recent report published on the website of "Online Doctor of Medicine" in the United States. To have a good marital relationship, the accumulation of bits and pieces in daily life is the most important.
In order to identify the key factors for a good marriage, Professor Brian Ogsgee from the School of Human and Community Development at Illinois State University in the United States led a team to conduct 35 surveys over several years. Interviewed over 12000 married individuals and ultimately summarized the five key words for good marital relationships. The happier the couple, the more fully these five key words are used.
1. Loyalty: Credit should not only be given to one's business partners, but also become an unchanging principle between you and your partner. This is not only reflected in loyalty to the other party, but also allows them to experience your eternal support and encouragement. Keeping promises not only includes punctuality in daily appointments, but also the vow of 'life and death, speaking with my son'.
2. Sharing: Marriage belongs to two people, and the big and small things naturally do not need to be clearly divided. Household chores, work, finances, and taking care of children can all be done together.
3. Honesty: Communicate openly with your partner and share your feelings. Encourage the other party to express their inner thoughts, as they remain silent with each other. Or unilateral chatter will only lead to a gradual decrease in mutual understanding.
4. Positive: In daily communication and behavior, have a positive and optimistic attitude, and each other will gain energy and happiness from these positive information; On the contrary, if your partner enthusiastically tells you a joyful story, and you remain unmoved or even indifferent to it. It will dampen the other party's enthusiasm and greatly discount the positive interaction between couples.
5. Love your family and friends: Being able to accept and respect each other's loved ones and friends. It is another manifestation of a happy marriage, and in the event, don't forget to invite the other party's family and friends. The sincere expression of your love for your child will undoubtedly make the other person love you more, and the sincerity, trust, and care of each other. It is also guarding the love between you and your partner as it grows richer and more fragrant.