On the weekend morning, my husband and I came home too late for work. We went to a Korean restaurant located near Huayuan Road and Linke Road for lunch.
This is a chain store with a small storefront, but the atmosphere of the decoration is very natural. The natural and heavy wooden tables and chairs, with a black and dignified roof paint color, are surrounded by simulated trees, and under the roots are square grooves surrounded by small stones.
In a room with a relatively small area, there are less than ten long dining tables displayed, and each table can only accommodate two to four guests. But the overall feeling is quiet, soothing, and comfortable, suitable for three or two friends or lovers to talk, chat, and share their thoughts here.
The two of us sat on the left side of the room and started ordering.
Korean cuisine is an Asian delicacy introduced to China in recent years. The Korean cuisine has very distinct characteristics, without the greasy and fragrant flavor of Yu cuisine and the assistance of various seasonings. Instead, it is a light, less greasy, MSG free, nutritious and diverse cuisine.
Korean cuisine is known as the "five flavors and five colors": sweet, sour, bitter, spicy, salty, as well as red, white, black, green, and yellow. Guests who have tasted Korean kimchi, miso soup, stone pot mixed rice, ginseng chicken soup, Korean roast beef, etc., will never forget the "quintessence" of Korean food culture. So since returning from a trip to South Korea, I have often talked about the delicious food, clothing, makeup, and beauty of South Korea in front of my family and friends.
Of course, the purpose of this visit to an authentic Korean cuisine is to enjoy the visual beauty again, find the stimulation of taste buds, and more importantly, experience the traditional Korean food culture.
After roughly browsing through the menu's product names and quickly borrowing from the colorful and tempting soup dishes at the adjacent table, the two of us chose the famous Korean barbecue, nutritious soup, and pasta.
The menu was handed to the waiter, and my husband and I were also chatting while waiting. At this moment, a conversation from a neighboring table not far from us, whether it was a couple or a couple, casually came to our ears.
They sat opposite each other, accompanied by a rich variety of dishes, and began to nourish their slow lifestyle atmosphere of eating and chatting in moderation.
The girl seems to be a well prepared person with psychological accumulation, but she only confides in each other's grievances, frustrations, and frustrations in the atmosphere of only two people at this moment. Perhaps it is the inherent weakness of a girl's personality, as she occasionally chokes and tears in her narration. She doesn't know how to relieve the irritability and unease in her heart, she doesn't want to bear the pressure she can't bear alone. She only wants to express herself as soon as possible and vent as soon as possible. To provide psychological comfort and understanding to the opposite sex who only knows themselves, understands themselves, and loves them, in front of all the grievances and resentment at home or at work, as well as the unpleasant emotions of being misunderstood and hurt by others, and to provide warmth and compassion to the opposite sex. And with the help of their own lacrimal glands, they are able to quickly disperse and release.
As a man, perhaps the most unbearable thing is the tears of a woman, especially the girl he admires, loves, or falls in love with. Under his own gaze, her makeup is ruined, and her fragrance is both fragrant and fragrant. I believe that as long as a man has a love knot for her, he will not turn a deaf ear and remain indifferent.
At this point, the boy who had been listening to the girl began to be unable to suppress his silent listening state. Instead, he used a male perspective, stance, vision, and thinking to provide psychological massage and physical therapy to the girl sitting opposite him.
Perhaps the boy's words were loud and weighty, or perhaps his arguments were reasonable and persuasive. The girl who had been crying a little bit restrained, and her choking voice became clearer.
She seemed to have been relieved by the sudden torrential rain and lightning. Her expression also transformed from extreme dissatisfaction and displeasure to a gentle and soothing relief and resolution, and received nourishment and nourishment from a highly soothing and flushing soul chicken soup from the opposite sex.
She achieved the goal of close communication and exchange with her boyfriend or husband this time, which is only their world. Although this is at a time when there are witnesses, in a not very private space, I immediately air and display my dirty and unreserved psychology as if there were no one else. But there is no distance between each other's role exchange, no hidden psychological integration, no divergent spiritual guidance, and a clear identification and resolution in the emotional direction. For couples or couples who have been wandering in love, such romantic dating cannot be said to be the best emotional or marital preparation.
This is like the barbecue on the grill in front of us. Without the moderate temperature charcoal grill under the grill, we may not be able to make delicious barbecue for export. Too high a charcoal fire can scorch the roasted meat, and too warm a charcoal fire cannot nourish fresh and delicious food.
Life is the same. The tepid and tepid pace of life makes it impossible to play lively emotional music for both men and women. A strong or domineering personality that the other party cannot accept; Too inky or too procrastinating in handling things, and unable to create romantic and colorful sparks with each other.
The "five flavors" in Korean cuisine are not the sweet, sour, bitter, spicy, and salty flavors in our world of mortals. We must taste every flavor, whether we can accept it or not, we cannot avoid it, and we must be prepared and take measures to respond.
And the red, white, black, green, and yellow in the "five colors" are all seasonings that we can choose to add to our spiritual life.
We cannot just be satisfied with our three meals a day, let alone pursue the minimum security of our clothing, food, housing, and transportation. We need to constantly add nutrients and water to our hearts.
There is no colorful spiritual life, no abundant spiritual nourishment, no constant updates of love between men and women. Perhaps our emotional world is only gray and hazy, only cold war and indifference, and only elusive and seemingly detached.
Learning to cook in a timely and appropriate manner in emotional or marital life is the most perfect and enjoyable way for a couple to live together forever!