Post Date April, 15 2023
The night before yesterday, I was singing in the singing hall with a group of colleagues. I passed a private room while going to the bathroom in the middle and heard a familiar sound coming from inside. Although other sounds were very loud, I still recognized that it was the voice of my husband, an iron buddy, who seemed to have drunk and shouted loudly, "What's the matter? Didn't it mean that you were asked to find all of you, the most beautiful ones? Why don't you hurry up?"
My brain buzzed and I remembered that my husband said he was going out to dinner with his buddies today and would come home later. I said it was okay, and I happened to be out playing.
Find a quiet place to call him and ask him when he will be home. He said he would be back in a moment. Who are you with? He said, "Oh my God, that's the person I just mentioned.". What should I do? It's better to watch the situation develop. You should calm down and then calm down.
After about 20 minutes, I bid farewell to my colleagues and said something was wrong at home, so I left first. When I reached the corridor, I pulled a waiter and asked him about the situation in the private room. He wouldn't say anything, so I stuffed 200 yuan into his hand.
He told me that there were five or six men inside, and he found several young ladies to accompany him in singing. I explained the characteristics of my husband and asked him if he had such a person. He said yes.
"That's really a disorganized mind. When I leave the door, let my emotions calm down. I want to see if there is any further development?"? Standing in an inconspicuous place outside the song house, I could clearly see what was happening at the gate of the song house.
"I don't know how long it took before a group of them came out, and several women in revealing clothes boarded several taxis, respectively. I immediately got on the one that the driver followed him.". I'm glad I didn't drive the day before yesterday.
There were few cars on the road at night, and they followed smoothly. They got off the car in front of a hotel. I also asked the driver to stop at a distance and slowly walk to the hotel door. "There were no more people in the lobby, so I went directly in and asked the staff, 'Which room did those people live in just now?'"? The staff said they should keep it confidential. "I seriously said to them, 'They're going to go whoring. If you don't tell me, I can call the 110 police now. If you tell me, I promise nothing will happen here with you.'". The little girl was afraid and told me some room numbers. I recorded the number on my phone.
"My mind has never been so clear before, and I don't want to see those ugly scenes. If something wants to happen, it didn't happen this time, and it will also happen next time.". Walking out of the hotel, I called him again and couldn't get through.
I know my marriage should be over.
"I came home in a daze, lying in bed with tears streaming uncontrollably. The man who said he loved me is such a dirty and dirty person.".
After a while, I heard the sound of opening the door with a key and pretended to be asleep by wiping my tears with a quilt. Without turning on the light, he crept in, probably thinking I was asleep, then walked out and went straight to the study. I guess he went online.
"I simply didn't sleep all night, but when I woke up at dawn, I saw him lying in front of the computer and falling asleep.". "When I went in, he woke up and asked me why my eyes were swollen. I said I had a nightmare, and then I didn't talk to him anymore.". He was busy preparing breakfast, and I said I wouldn't eat anymore. The unit still had something to do and needed to go early. After leaving the door, he called the leader and asked for leave, driving around the street.
Then I went to my mother and brought her ID card, saying that the unit needed it, and the old lady gave it to me without any doubt. At 8:30, I went directly to the bank, withdrew a total of over 1 million yuan from my name, and then deposited them with my mother's ID card.
Fortunately, all the savings at home are in my charge, and the house is also under my name. "I don't want to catch traitors, nor do I want to watch disgusting scenes. What I want to do is to protect my own interests to the maximum extent.". At noon, I called my sister out and told her about it. She didn't advise me. I've always been a very thoughtful person, and no one can stop me from doing anything I want.
I said I needed her help to transfer the house to her name. She thought for a moment and agreed.
"I went back very late in the evening, and then I spent the night on the internet. The next day, I went to handle the property transfer with my sister. This can't be done in a moment, it requires a lot of procedures, and I can wait.".
In the afternoon, I called him out and found a relatively quiet place. I asked about yesterday. "He earns almost all the money in the family now. I'm not greedy. If I get divorced for something else, I can't do it, but I can't do it."
When asked where he went, he just lowered his head and didn't say anything. I'm in a hurry. If you don't tell me, I'll tell you where you're going and what room you're staying in. "He still kept his head down and didn't speak, and my tears flowed out uncontrollably.".
He immediately flopped down on his knees, hugged my leg and asked me to forgive him, saying that he would never go again.
"I cried and said, 'When you did something like that, didn't you even think of today?'"? I also told you that the money is no longer in my account, and the house will also be transferred to someone else's name. If you feel that you have suffered a loss, you can do everything you can to sue me. He still couldn't get up on his knees and said he could do nothing, but he couldn't lose me. I said get up, it's no use. After the house is completed, you can sign the divorce agreement. I don't want to see you during this time, so I won't go home. You're also ready to pack up your things and take them away.
"When he saw that I was very determined, he stood up and said, 'Think again. After all, we have been married for so many years and have a deep relationship.'". I'm so angry. Why didn't you think about our feelings when you did that? I didn't need to think about it, so I turned around and left.
In the evening, I found a place to have a drink and didn't want to let the old man know until the matter was over. I plan to stay in another house instead of going back this time, but I have to go back and get some of my things.
"Opening the door at night gave me a fright. Almost everyone in my husband's family was here, and the living room was suddenly full. I went in and stood up immediately.". "He said, 'You haven't eaten yet. I'll cook it for you. I didn't say a word. My father-in-law went up and slapped him two big ears. He said,' I hit you just now, and then I hit you in front of your daughter-in-law, you shameless brute. '".
"I smiled and said, 'It's nothing serious. Everyone should be calm. I must divorce this marriage, because I have seen many women come to terms with a man's infidelity. I won't give him another chance to worry about it, but we're all adults now. Shall we solve our problems ourselves?'"?
"So many people are saying this and that, nothing more than asking me to forgive such words.". It's late. Let's all go back.
"Seeing my attitude, they left, and when they were about to leave, my father-in-law went up and kicked him.". "I began to pack up my things, but he didn't dare come over and stop me. He stood pitifully at the door, muttering to me to forgive him, and he wouldn't be bothered with such mistakes anymore.". "I carried the box and said to him, 'You look like a man, if you dare to act, you dare to bear the consequences.' Then I pushed him open and left.".
"I called him downstairs. If you dare to let my mother know about this matter, then you won't be able to solve it in the current way, and your business won't be done either.". I don't want to find a suitable one after leaving him. It's not in the plan. The future depends on fate. If there is no suitable one, then living alone is also very enjoyable. This evening was very quiet, and no one bothered me anymore. My grandmother's family knew my personality, and they advised me. Seeing my attitude, they wouldn't bother anymore.
As for the division of money, if I'm not sure, I won't do that. I am a person with an independent personality and no sand in my eyes. "It's not that I'm unfeeling. When I first got married, I agreed that whoever cheats will go away alone. I didn't expect it to be confirmed.".
I'll go through the formalities in a few days. The days ahead are still long. I want to live a good life and not let myself live in the shadow of the past, but it takes time for the wound to heal.
Men are easy to forgive themselves and feel that such a thing is not a big deal, but if it happens to a woman, which man can forgive?
What I have done is to minimize the harm I have suffered. Perhaps many men do not understand, do not need men to understand, do something wrong to be responsible for their own behavior, a man who is not willing to be responsible for their own behavior is not a man. Think of a man who once entered the body of such a woman, who is already dirty. How can he tolerate such a person approaching my body?
He sent me a message online asking if I was in a better mood? If my resolution has been made, he agrees to divorce, and agrees to be clean. He said he had done something wrong, but he couldn't keep pestering me to look down on him.
"I replied, OK, I'll go through the formalities as soon as I set the time.".
Although my heart hurts, if I don't solve it this way, I will suffer for a lifetime. Long pain is better than short pain, and short pain is better than no pain. Now that it has already hurt, let's have a short pain. "Catching a traitor is nothing more than a matter of grasping his handle so that he will not commit it in the future, or using it to have more benefits in dividing up property.".
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
