Post Date December, 03 2023
After getting married for a long time, life inevitably becomes dull and boring, and marriage relationships can even be threatened. Recently, a report published on the website of "Online Doctor of Medicine" in the United States pointed out that in order to have a good marital relationship, the accumulation of bits and pieces in daily life is the most important.
In order to identify the key factors for a good marriage, Professor Brian Ogsgee from the School of Human and Community Development at Illinois State University in the United States led a team to conduct 35 surveys over the years, interviewed over 12000 married individuals, and ultimately summarized the five key words for good marital relationships. The happier the couple, the more fully these five key words are used, which are:
Loyalty: Credit should not only be given to your business partners, but also become an unchanging principle between you and your partner. This not only manifests in loyalty to the other party, but also allows them to experience your eternal support and encouragement; Keeping promises not only includes punctuality in daily appointments, but also the vow of 'life and death, speaking with your son'.
Sharing: Marriage belongs to two people, and the big and small things naturally do not need to be clearly divided. Household chores, work, finances, and taking care of children can all be completed together.
Honesty: Communicate openly with your partner, discuss your feelings, and encourage them to express their inner thoughts. Because mutual silence or unilateral chatter will only lead to a gradual decrease in mutual understanding.
Positive: In daily communication and behavior, have a positive and optimistic attitude, and both parties will gain energy and happiness from this positive information. On the contrary, if your partner enthusiastically tells you a happy story, and you remain unmoved or even indifferent, it will dampen their enthusiasm and greatly compromise the positive interaction between the couple.
Loving one's family and friends: Being able to accept and respect each other's loved ones and friends is another manifestation of a happy marriage. In the event, don't forget to invite the other party's family and friends. Your sincere expression of love for your house will undoubtedly make the other party love you even more. And each other's sincerity, trust, and care are also guarding the love between you and your partner. The longer it lasts, the richer and more fragrant it becomes.
