A woman who can understand what men are thinking in their hearts is probably what most men crave, because getting along with such a woman can require very little effort, and it can be said that knowing oneself and the other can lead to victory in all battles. A man looking for a wife, beauty is just one of many indicators. What we hope more is that women can know when to silently support behind them, when to move forward and backward together, give freedom, and give space. Only in this way can I love you more and achieve happiness.
1、 Don't speak freely about right and wrong at home
Family shame should not be exposed. The right and wrong at home are inherently inexplicable things, and if combined with external rumors and rumors, a man's self-esteem will definitely collapse completely. At that time, even if men are willing to reconcile, they will still find it difficult to get off the hook. I believe many men agree with this statement. Because men's housekeeping principle is: no outsiders are allowed to interfere in internal affairs! The best way is to close the door and resolve it peacefully.
2、 Understand shortcomings and faults
Men attach great importance to their families and women, and families are a safe haven for men. We hope that this place can fully accommodate success and failure, and always welcome them back with open arms. A friend's wife scolded him for being so useless as soon as he got home, and he came back so late. In the end, he couldn't bear it, and they were both relieved.
3、 Must be hygienic and love cleanliness
Nowadays, men live more exquisitely than women, and they cannot tolerate a woman who does not wash her face or feet, and remains indifferent to the chaotic home. The family is in chaos, and doing household chores together is also a good way to communicate emotionally.
4、 The title of head of a family
A friend's wife always likes to argue with men about the head of the family, as if the head of the family can really influence something. In fact, what my buddies demand is just a status, and it is still the responsibility of women to take the initiative to buy groceries and wash dishes. In a constitutional monarchy, the prime minister decides everything, but the dignity and prestige of the king cannot be ignored.
5、 Fear of loneliness and loneliness
Single men who go out for a drink or sleep at their friends' house every night are not fond of drinking or getting very close to their friends. The real reason is that they are afraid of being alone. Therefore, married men have every reason to believe that they should no longer feel lonely and lonely. So when men lose their women's whereabouts or they come back late or even don't, they become frightened like a naked Superman in a busy city.
Don't expect the appearance of your family to be the same. Friends and wives often complain that men are like two people at home and outside, polite to outsiders, but like a tyrant at home? Worried about this. In fact, these sisters have thought too much, because politeness has always been just a social necessity, and excessive politeness can be harmful to the family without any benefits. When a man shows great courtesy towards a woman, it can only indicate that he has lost love for her or done something wrong to her.