Post Date December, 02 2023
A man living in this world can achieve success in his career, happiness in his family, and truly receive people's praise and recognition. It is not an easy task, but it is the most desired and pursued thing in their hearts. How to share the joy of success through one's own efforts is not the only way, but early effort is indeed the most important part, "taking a small step early is a big step towards success". Have you tried hard? How hard are you working? Please read the following article - If you want to succeed, have you achieved it!
1. Career always comes first
Although money is not everything, it is impossible without it. Although this sentence is vulgar, it definitely makes sense. Therefore, before the age of 30, please focus most of your energy on your career.
2. Don't take money too seriously
Don't complain about your current low salary, bank savings below 4 digits, and no future prospects. What you need to do now is to study hard. Even if you have a high diploma, how to apply theory to practice still requires a long process of practice. Society is always the most extensive university, and the knowledge you learn is much more important than what you learned in school. Therefore, don't worry too much about a low degree. There are still very few people who rely on their own abilities to buy a car or a house before the age of 30.
3. Learn to empathize with parents
Don't blame them for their nagging. When you become a father, you will know that you are pitiful to all parents. In their eyes, you are still a child, but they are really old. Now you need to make them happy. Perhaps just a phone call and a small gift from you can make them feel at ease and easy to do.
4. Make good friends
5. Don't believe too much in vows of eternal love
There must be love in your heart, but please don't say or believe the mountain alliances and sea vows in Aunt Qiongyao's novels. There is no eternity in this world, and the important thing is responsibility. But a woman's heart is a needle in the ocean, and her heart has changed. Everything is in vain. What you need to do is to take action when it's time to take action, and don't hesitate when it's time to let go. Love before the age of 30 is not fake, but most people do not have the ability to truly grasp it, so they learn to act according to their abilities.
6. Don't worry, I still keep my first kiss to this day
Love lies not in abundance, but in refinement. Don't think you've never met a girl in your twenties and you're afraid you'll never find a wife. In the future, you will have many opportunities to meet girls. You should know that although there are more men than women in this society, the reality is that women are actually more worried about this issue than men. A man's 30 is a flower, and you are appreciating rather than depreciating. Mature love is often more beautiful and long-lasting, so don't be like a crazy dog chasing a girl, learn to taste loneliness.
7. Don't get addicted to anything
The so-called 'playing with things and losing heart' refers to online games that you play before leaving school. You don't have any extra time and energy to spend on them now, otherwise you will have to repay everything you overdraw in the future. A person should have interests and hobbies, but please prioritize them.
8. Young without failure
Don't lose heart when encountering setbacks, young people should always maintain a positive and upward attitude. Failed, start over again; Lost, strive for something else. Missed, need to analyze, next time come, need to grasp; Childish, next time, mature. It doesn't matter, it will be okay. Even if it reaches the extreme, don't give up. I believe we can make it through. Don't be negative, it will be okay. The past mistakes are gone, and we can't dwell on the past. Now, it's great, exhausted, very comfortable. Don't hurt, there will always be someone to support you.
9. Don't easily worship or despise someone
Everyone has idols, but please have your own personality. Don't deliberately imitate someone, because you are who you are, unique and unique, and have confidence. Don't completely deny a person, everyone is valuable. If you can't understand them, please learn to accept them.
10. Be responsible
No matter how you used to be, please be an upright person from now on. Men need to have a sense of responsibility, whether in work or life, a responsible person can make others feel safe and trustworthy. We don't want to be cowardly, but please don't hurt the people who love you and those you love, especially the kind girls, because there are not many kind girls in this world. Even if you don't want to have them, please let them keep their beautiful hearts.
11. A man's appearance is not important
Don't worry too much about your appearance and height. A kind-hearted and upright man is much more handsome than those who have handsome looks, tall figures, but dirty hearts. If someone judges a person based on their appearance, please don't worry too much, because you don't have to worry about a vulgar person
12. Learn to protect the body
Don't think it's okay to smoke and drink now and stay up all night. That's because your body is in the prime time of your life. After the age of 30, you will understand the meaning of the word 'powerless'. The body is the capital of revolution, and without a good body, nothing can be done. Therefore, it is important to strive to lead a regular and healthy life.
13. Don't feel like nothing has been achieved
You are not yet qualified to negotiate success, except for those with millions of assets. A career that is too fixed at the beginning may not necessarily be a good thing. Perhaps through continuous career changes, you will learn more knowledge and discover your potential to find the most suitable job for you.
14. Please work diligently
Even if your current job is no matter how boring or low-level, please take it seriously. You should know that any successful person starts from the smallest thing. Perhaps you may not learn such great knowledge now, but at least you need to learn a good work attitude and methods, which is very important for the future
15. Please take emotions seriously
Don't envy those playboys who change women like changing shoes. Casual love is just a waste of time and energy. The most painful thing for a person is not that they can't find a lover, but that they don't have love in their hearts. When you turn the three words' I love you 'into the easiest thing to say, then it's difficult for you to find true happiness in the world of love. Love is not fair, there is always someone who gives more than the other person. Even if there is no result, don't feel unworthy, because your efforts are not only for her, but also for your own love. Giving for love is very valuable, praise yourself.
16. Please leave a little childlike innocence
In the depths of your heart, even if it's just a small corner, please maintain a childlike innocence, not childish, but sometimes being simple can make you very happy. So don't worry too much about gains and losses, life is never perfect.
They all say 'standing at thirty', but nowadays success seems to require a bit more and faster for a man in his thirties. But from the age of 20 to before the age of 30 is a golden period for learning and improving a person's abilities and qualities, while from the age of 30 to 35 is a period of upward mobility, which requires the accumulation of previous knowledge and integration into society. Therefore, men must be prepared in advance and work hard as soon as possible. Of course, only under multiple pressures such as career, family, responsibility, can we truly create successful men.
Friends have a significant impact on your life. Don't make too many flesh and drink friends, at least have a friend who can help you in critical moments. If you encounter such a person, take good advantage of it, and it will definitely be useful in the future, regardless of whether they are rich or poor now.
