Post Date December, 03 2023
"What is a wife? The woman you are willing to give your savings to her for safekeeping. What is a confidant of beauty? The woman you can tell her some secrets but can't tell your wife." Baby Annie said
Therefore, many men want to have a confidant. Regrettably, it is hard to find a confidant of beauty; Even if you are lucky enough to find it, you may turn your "confidante" into a "scourge of beauty" because you can't grasp the "degree" well, which makes your wife and children split up and your dog and dog restless.
Beauty confidants pay attention to spiritual communication
"More than friends, less than lovers" is people's definition of beauty confidant. The normal confidante is still more friends, which is a pure heterosexual emotion. For the opposite sex of the same age, it can be called a confidant of beauty; However, people with large age gap are generally called "forgetful friends". The confidant of beauty can be both a listener and a reader of the heart. But it is completely spiritual communication. Once love or sexual behavior occurs, this relationship will collapse.
Beauty confidants have a long history. Russian musicians Tchaikovsky and Madame Meck are good examples. They have corresponded for 13 years, but have never met. Madame Meck said in the letter: "Our souls are touching, looking at each other and talking to each other. You and your music are tapping on my soul every moment." Tchaikovsky also regarded Madame Meck as the only confidant of beauty; He wrote the famous works "The Fourth Symphony" and "The Pathetique Symphony" for her.
Men need female confidants
In the eyes of women, men can't escape the suspicion of cheating when they look for their confidantes. In fact, many men just want to have an object to talk to. Men will also be vulnerable and need care. But in the family, a man is an umbrella to cover the wind and rain. He must cover up his fatigue and weakness with a strong appearance, while a confidant of beauty can release a man's negative emotions. In the eyes of men, women are more thoughtful and willing to listen. Their bosom is like a mother, which can bring a sense of security to men.
The relationship between husband and wife is not only marriage, but also friendship and kinship. But most people don't realize this, and when the wife doesn't communicate with her husband like a friend, it will make men feel a kind of psychological regret. At this time, confidantes become "necessities".
In addition, vanity makes most men eager to enjoy the care and intimacy of women outside their wives. The biggest difference between lovers and confidants is that the latter does not involve sex, love and money, so it is easier to maintain life. It is lucky to have someone to listen to you and wait for you silently in your life. Therefore, some people have said that women who can be confidants of beauty know how to love and listen, but they will not be demanding and exclusive. It is because of this sense of distance that men can communicate with them more easily, and even share the most private secrets with them.
Don't hide from your wife
For men, if they are lucky to get a confidant, they will probably regard her as the most tender secret in their hearts. If a man has a confidant, he'd better confess to his wife. If you just regard your confidante as a friend on the spiritual level, you don't have a ghost in mind; And your wife is a tolerant person, which can be completely frank. As a wife, when she learns that her husband has a confidant, she should give her understanding and trust. Since your husband is willing to tell you this, it means that he is unlikely to betray mentally and physically.
In order to avoid the beauty confidante becoming the beauty "disaster", men should also remember that "the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water", for example, do not contact with the beauty confidante too often, and do not talk too deeply; The meeting time should not be too late and the place should not be too hidden; Don't look for your confidante for everything. You should know that she is only one of your many friends.
