In today's society, being a man is also difficult. If a man does not have a "small treasury", his daily life will definitely be awkward. Whether it is a reasonable daughter-in-law or a meticulous daughter-in-law, it is very necessary to make the family harmonious. Whether you are a The Advocate of male chauvinism or a man with "bronchitis", you have to live and want to live happily. The "small vault" is a good guarantee.
Most married women are the same, and men naturally smile when they pay at home. If they take money from home, they are naturally unhappy. Of course, what I'm talking about is the families of ordinary people, not including those of corrupt officials and wealthy individuals.
There are many social activities for men outside, and everyone has a good and good relationship. In daily life, it is inevitable for friends to spend money on important matters and small affairs. If a man does not have money at his disposal, it is quite difficult for him in the outside world, especially if his wife has tighter control over money. Over time, it will inevitably bring disharmony to the family.
The 'small treasury' is a double-edged sword, which can bring happiness and harmony to family life if used well, and can also bring unhappiness and trouble if not used well. First of all, I advocate that the purpose of men's "small coffers" is not to spend them on things that are detrimental to family life or improper, but to use them as essential parts of family life, to alleviate the debate over whether to spend them due to differences in understanding between couples. Below, I will give you a few examples to illustrate. If you are interested, you may as well give it a try.
We always need to express that there are unwritten rules in the social life circle regarding the red and white events that happen at a friend's home, as well as moving to a new house. I think everyone knows that friends also have a difference in distance, so this kind of expression should also vary from person to person. I think the big family will agree with my point of view. The problem is that if there are too many such things to do for a period of time, and you keep taking money from home, it's impossible not to disagree with your wife, but this money is necessary to spend. At this time, if you have a "small treasury", you can imagine how much nonsense you can save and how much unnecessary trouble you can reduce.
A man, he always likes to gather together and have a drink when he's free. When he's happy, he can't help but drink more. And most ordinary ladies do not approve of it. They do not want you to go out for a drink, for fear of unsafe traffic, for fear of causing trouble after drinking too much, and for fear of going home and being drunk crazy. Actually, these are all for the benefit of us men, and we understand. But who would give up this opportunity or simply give up drinking? Madam has already opposed it. If you keep spending money from home, can you be happy? If you don't take money from home, you can't always let your friends spend money. Restaurants are not free. At this point, I think the 'little treasury' has come in handy. If it doesn't exist, you can regret it!
Let's talk about buying groceries in the market in daily life. Generally, women like to bargain, while men are not good at it. I used to get nagged by my wife every time I bought groceries, not only because I thought they were expensive, but also because they were not good. Buying groceries is a small matter, and it is not always possible for a man not to go and give all this task to his wife. Why bother because this small matter is not pleasant? Later on, I went to the market to take a closer look and decided to buy a good one. The quotation was not expensive when I returned home. Anyway, I didn't have a scale at home, so I couldn't help but put a few dollars in the "small vault" and settle down. Isn't it beautiful! Of course, if in daily life, you are better at bargaining than women, then there is no need.
During holidays, a family of three always has to go to the street or something, and when they go out, they will inevitably take a taxi or have lunch or something. You need to take a taxi, your wife needs to take the bus, you need to have some lunch and have a big meal, and your wife needs to be simple and even advocate going home for eating. What should you do? If you have a "small treasury", you can generously ask your wife to obtain a "taxi" ticket and a meal invoice, saying that you have a place to arrange reimbursement. This way, you will not only have both sides of the coin, but also have a good time. Why not do it.
If you have a "small treasury", you can generously buy a dress or gift for your wife every New Year's holiday, and tell white lies such as a friend's gift. Do you think your wife can be unhappy? When the lady is hesitant about a certain pair of shoes or clothes just because the price is too high, you can also give generous advice and have the strength to guarantee it. How can she not be good for you?
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)