Many male friends and women feel bored after staying for a long time, which is a period that must be passed. If you cannot endure this period, you may face the risk of breaking up. So how should you avoid it? Let's take a look together:
Men should also be 'bad' from time to time
1. There is no need to include any reason for asking her to eat, drink coffee, eat ice cream, or go to a bar, just like an ordinary friend. If she voluntarily pays the bill once out of every five times, then let her pay.
2. Proactively solve her computer problem in the office, signaling that she doesn't need to stand up. Bend down your waist, hold the back of her chair with one hand, hold the mouse with the other hand, and then approach your face to maintain a palm distance from her face;
3. If you have a car to drive her home, you don't need to get off the car to see her off. Just sit in the car and watch her walk into the lobby or hallway.
4. Praise her for her newly purchased boots or earrings, and tell her that you really like this style or color.
5. If there are no special circumstances after work from Monday to Friday, SMS should not be sent every day. Even if it needs to be sent, it should not exceed five round-trip times. If there is no meeting on the weekend, SMS greetings must be sent, but it should not exceed ten round-trip times - but if one night we had dinner or went somewhere to play, SMS greetings must be sent within ten minutes after sending her back, remember!
6. When two people are together, try to avoid going to places with poor lighting. Remember that you are playing in ambiguous and dimly lit places, such as cinemas, restaurants, and parks at night, which can make a girl feel confused and think that you are pursuing her.
7. Ambiguous words and jokes must be said in text messages or MSN/QQ, never in person, nor on the phone! In addition, all ambiguous jokes must be converted into normal topics in an appropriate way. Improper interruptions can also cause misunderstandings - of course, a beautiful misunderstanding can occur once a week, but not more than once
8. Pay attention to her health condition. Many girls have minor stomach problems. Find out what medication they usually take when they feel pain, and then coincidentally prepare a bottle in the drawer of the office or in the storage compartment of the carriage - be careful not to confuse menstrual pain and stomach pain, as the two are clearly different in the position they cover when they feel pain.
The above introduction is that sometimes men can learn to be "bad", hoping to be helpful to everyone. The above is just for reference. If male friends are not too good with girls, they should not be "bad" casually.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)