1、 If you do have content, there are girls who will appreciate it. But if you don't have a second chance to see someone, you won't know, so those who should lose weight must lose weight. (I personally experienced that losing 20 pounds resulted in significantly different treatment options).
2、 Try to switch from eating to drinking tea on your first date. Drinking tea is significantly more effective in drawing both parties' attention to people than eating.
3、 Don't think that girls will definitely like boys of the same type. It is likely that girls are childish but require boys to be mature; Girls are stubborn but demand that boys can tolerate them. Don't complain, that's the rule. You either leave or adapt.
4、 What to eat and do, fully solicit opinions from girls, but when she expresses no opinions or is casual, boys must come up with their own opinions, and during this process, pay attention to whether the girls have the willingness to make corrections.
5、 There is a certain truth to the phrase 'sincerity leads to success', but it is necessary to understand what the core demands of girls are. If you are only dissatisfied with your dressing style, small details of life, or level of concern, you can work hard to change it; But if you have objections to your ugliness, obesity, poverty, or thinness, then you still don't have to work hard for nothing.
6、 Those who voluntarily deliver to their doorstep are not popular. This specifically refers to when the other party has a slight opinion of you but is still willing to approach you, your excessive enthusiasm may cause her to overestimate herself, thereby accelerating your exit.
7、 Try to maintain a good relationship with someone who has been on a blind date as much as possible. It's not about having a good impression, but rather having someone in her circle who is very suitable for you. If she is willing to introduce you, your path should also be wider.
8、 Grasp the "interpersonal node" type of matchmaker. A matchmaker with 50 resources is much better than a matchmaker with only 5 resources. Be grateful to the kind-hearted matchmaker. Continuously correcting your shortcomings, it's not scary to have dozens of blind dates, but what's scary is that your last blind date has not made any progress compared to your first one!