Post Date April, 15 2023
First post: One cut, two cuts
Women's first day, men's fifteenth day. The dream lover in the fantasy cannot become a fact, and the best outcome is of course to break away early and be careful not to hurt your self-esteem too much. Emotions are like a knot, what cannot be broken must be cut. Cutting will definitely cause bleeding, but the faster and more agile the action, the lighter the injury. If she were to cut you first, then of course you would be injured! No matter how things happen, being a man is of course unbearable, losing one's fighting spirit and completely losing the joy of life. But time can soothe everything. In a few weeks, your wound must heal. Don't lie down and die for a woman.
Second post: Everything is like a dream
Is heartbreak really shameless? After something happens, whether it's loneliness, heartbreak, or sadness, whatever you feel is good, but the aftermath always needs someone to clean up. Don't think that falling in love is a shameless thing, even if you are no longer loved, why should others think so? Losing love is not a big deal, let alone 'losing face'. We can't be together anymore, of course we have to separate, and we should be proud of our own decisions. At the same time, you need to firmly believe that the previous love was just a dream, and a broken love is a wake-up call.
Third post: gone without a trace
No matter whether you are passionate or not, don't be tempted by desires. Sometimes you may have hallucinations, as if the nightmare has passed and everything can get better again. If she leaves, she has already expressed her attitude with facts, and it is not worth your effort to change anything. If you continue to socialize, you are like being stuck in mud and unable to extricate yourself. Who doesn't know that the deeper the relationship between lovers after a breakup, the worse the situation becomes? When your consciousness is not firm, do you remember the scene of her turning around in your tears?
Fourth post: Kick away with one kick
After a broken relationship, negotiations are of no use and can only prolong the pain. If you still think she is perfect, please take a closer look at how perfect she is. You list the unacceptable aspects of her personality and record the reasons why she could live better without her. Every time you feel dizzy and dizzy, take a look at her guilt again. Don't think it's too harsh, it's only beneficial. Be firm and kick her out of your world!
Fifth post: "Naked"
Even if a woman proposes to break up, she still likes to put on a thread and say, "If we were destined, we might be together again." Don't be fooled, the so-called glimmer of vitality is like a joke told by Zhu Bajie. Although you may feel relaxed, she is actually playing a cat and mouse game. The subtext is, you poor man, don't be discouraged or sad. I may need your help! Immediately acknowledge that your relationship has ended. A naked chest is always refreshing.
Sixth post: One Way Without Fear
You need to tell yourself a truth: people are often afraid, and when you pursue them, you are afraid of losing them; When you get her, you will be afraid of her falling in love and moving on. After the volcanic eruption of heartbreak, you need to relax mentally and then relax again. The so-called courage is nothing more than that. Just a woman, why be afraid!
Seventh Post: Unintentional Silence
From the first day after a breakup, you must be determined to shut up. Although kind-hearted friends surround you, telling you her shortcomings to comfort you. At this point, you must not speak up and compromise, damage the reputation of your ex girlfriend, or at least force yourself to 'deny her'. The pity of everyone can only make your trauma greater, and the most serious thing is that you will become the object of pity. This has fatal damage to your male image. Pretending not to care is meaningless, but staying silent is actually Shibi Jinjian!
Eighth post: Once in a lifetime
Finally, if you still find it difficult to explain, then believe in fate! A few heartbreaks is not enough to prove anything. Admitting that luck plays an important role in love, think about how many falls you fell before learning to walk? love? In the end, it's just a game! A failed love is always luckier than a failed marriage.
